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Effort Kudzani Mpofu, a 24 year old young lady from Palapye and her sweetheart Lapologang Kutlo Segokgo are head over heels in love with each other and are excited and looking forward to their happily ever after.

Opening up to WeekendLife, Mpofu said she met the love of her life whilst she was still working as a security guard during her night shift. After falling in love with her at first sight, she started pursuing her and they ended up dating and have no intentions of looking back unless of course reminiscing on their memories together.

“I saw her first and she was the most beautiful thing I've ever seen so calm and collected, I started envying her, I imagined us being together. I changed shifts and moved to the day shift. That is when I asked this other guy who stayed in the same neighbourhood as her, her names and what she was doing in life, and then one night on the 18th of May I received a call that made me the happiest girl on earth, it was her. We started talking since then until to date that's how I met my girlfriend,” she said.

The two have been together since last year April and they are certain that they are a match made in heaven. Despite the challenges that they face, they have made it clear that their destinies are tied together and are made for a happily ever after. Mpofu stated that she is fulfilled when she is with her, than she has been with anyone else.“With her everything is just different, the love, the care, and anything that one could need in a relationship. I now feel like I am an equal.

We support each other through everything you can name, financially, emotionally; unlike when I was with a man. Men like to feel entitled and like to take control over everything. I personally hate being told what to do,” she said.In as much as heterosexual relationships are flawed with hiccups here and there, infidelity and so on, same sex relationships are no different. Mpofu said women cheat too, but luckily for her she is very happy with where she is today.“I do not hate men, but I do not wish to be with men ever again because I have found my happiness in a woman.

I am highly sexually satisfied with women than with men and more importantly I am so much in love with the tenderness and the softness of their skin. Ultimately, I wish to be with a woman forever and ever,” she said.Most of her family members are aware of her sexual preference although she is not so sure about her mother albeit her mother is aware of her ex-girlfriend and her current girlfriend. “The feeling of being in a relationship with my girlfriend- Effort, has been the most wonderful experience, I can always brag about the most.

I have learnt to love through her, not only loving another person but also loving myself. She makes me feel wanted always, the love, the care and everything one could ask for from their partner, she spoils me with it all. Yes we have had our ups and downs but the way we always come around everything is all amazing and magical. I have laughed, cried done it all. But she's that one person I enjoy being around the most,” Segokgo shared with WeekendLife.The 20 year old further stated that she is complete with Mpofu and cannot imagine life without her and despite the challenges that come their way, they always find a way to resolve their differences.

Where there is love, commitment, and loyalty marriage is always the next big step and with these two, Segokgo really wishes she could walk her down the aisle. Although it is not yet legal in Botswana. “I would really love to see her walking towards me glowing with that angelic white dress. I would want to marry her in the future, I would want to officially make her mine, but due to her beliefs about marriage, I have second thoughts. Her thought about it also counts, I get where she is coming from by not believing so much in marriage and I respect it,” she said.

When quizzed about LGBTQ (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender and Queer) marriages being a possibility in Botswana, LEGABIBO (Lesbians, Gays and Bisexuals of Botswana) representative Bradley Fortuin explained to WeekendLife that, “We are currently still focusing on the decriminalisation appeal, and working on policy guidelines for trans inclusion. Talking marriage is later in the pipeline not now though.’’

“What we can say is that it is good that Batswana are becoming accommodative of the LGBTI (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender and Intersex) community. Our national values speak of tolerance, unity, Botho etc. LGBTI are more than their sexuality and their gender, we are also involved in the greater community and we contribute positively to the development of our nation,” he said.

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Fastjet Zimbabwe launches Vic Falls – Maun route

28th June 2022

Fastjet Zimbabwe, the award-winning value-based airline, this week announced that effective Thursday, 30 June 2022, the airline will introduce a new service between Victoria Falls in Zimbabwe and Maun in Botswana.

The new route is scheduled to operate four (4) times a week on a Tuesday, Thursday, Saturday, and Sunday. Fastjet will operate the route using a 50-seater Embraer ERJ145 aircraft. This aircraft choice is known to provide the versatility to build a sustainable regional network with the right-size capacity while offering customers comfortable seating with generous legroom.

Fastjet Zimbabwe spokesperson, Nunurai Ndawana, said, “The airline is thrilled to introduce direct flights from Victoria Falls to Maun. Using our Embraer ERJ145 aircraft, we believe this route will facilitate more travel between these two tourism capitals of Zimbabwe and Botswana. This route has for many years been only available by private charter.

So, with the introduction of this direct connection, we believe it will be able to spur tourism development and growth in the region”.

Fastjet Group Chief Operating Officer, Donahue Cortes commented, “The Victoria Falls – Maun flight is the second new route being added onto the fastjet regional network, with flights between Victoria Falls and Nelspruit Kruger Mpumalanga planned to launch ahead of the Easter travel period.

Despite the hard-wearing effects of the COVID-19 pandemic, the Group remains dedicated to the recovery and growth of tourism in Zimbabwe, South Africa and Botswana, and to bringing further connectivity to the region”. The new route will operate 4 times a week on Tuesday, Thursday, Saturday and Sunday connecting two of Southern Africa’s most iconic tourist destinations.

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Botswana may host Miss World 2024

28th June 2022
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Botswana has been approached to host the 73rd Miss World, expected in 2024.  During the appreciation event for Miss Botswana, Palesa Molefe, by Southern Epic Cycling Challenge in collaboration with The High Commission of India, Miss Botswana Management Company Chief Executive Officer (CEO), Benjamin Raletsatsi, confirmed that they have been approached by Miss World to host 73rd Miss World.

Speaking at the same arena, Raletsatsi highlighted that it has been his dream to host Miss World in Botswana.  “Miss Botswana is one of the difficult projects to run. There are days I just wake up and ask myself why I am doing what I am doing because everything about me from integrity is often times torn apart.

Then Palesa came along and validated and confirmed that what I am doing is right because it is setting an opportunity for young girls in this country to have an opportunity to express themselves. Four years ago, when I took over Miss Botswana I had a vision, in my vision I wanted the first year to just be us participating in Miss World, second year was for us to participate and ask Miss World to allow us to host Miss World in Botswana, and the third year was for us to elevate ourselves as a country; whilst in year four we wanted to win Miss World.

We could have won Miss World in our third year of office with Palesa, but unfortunately COVID-19 happened. The idea is that this coming year as Palesa will be handing over her Miss Botswana tittle, she will be there to guide the next Miss Botswana on how to prepare for Miss World.”

Raletsatsi pointed out that the reality that Palesa did not win Miss World does not mean she did not do well. “She did exceptionally well”. He said at the end of Miss World there were ten pictures of Miss World participants who had a huge impact auctioned, and out of ten pictures two of those pictures were of Palesa.

The Miss Botswana management CEO highlighted that after the Miss World competition, Miss World responded to their request to host the 73rd Miss World. “They responded and said we can host 73rd Miss World if we are still interested in hosting it.

The current Miss World will be the 71st this year and then followed by the 72nd which is next year and the 73rd which will be in 2024 which has been offered to Botswana. The bigger challenge for me now is how I will be able to convince Batswana to bring Miss World to Botswana.

The honest truth is that Palesa has done her part as a change agent, it is up to us to do our part as Batswana to ensure that Miss World comes to Botswana and is a success. I was joking with one of my friends the other day to say, what Palesa has achieved in one year can take some companies, three to four years to achieve.”

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Fathers’ Day explodes!

28th June 2022

You choose a path to be better or bitter, why do you have to expose a person, what do you gain from that? We react rather than become proactive. Mothers need help! Some said as social media turned into a battlefield this past Father’s Day.

Baby mamas came all guns blazing, ventilating their frustrations against absent baby daddies through social media posts. “As for me I feel women will be applying a hurting heart or she is bitter to expose baby daddy.

There are channels one can follow to solve this issues rather than rushing to Facebook and exposing them, it’s reacting rather than solving the reality of the problem, it won’t help you, after all what will Facebook do to you? Would it give you the food, would it make the father to support the child, but there are channels one can follow like one can consult with the laws then this man will know the right thing to do”, said Obonye Obza Thapelo who is baby daddy of two daughters.

Thapelo further argued that if you seek for definition you will lose a father, “we have our fathers, it’s not about the responsibility, if we are talking about a father on happy father’s day don’t talk about the definition, talk about father’s day, it never say define or describe whose a father.

When you come back to family, we have family dynamics, family faults and family failures, so if you have family failures, for example, if I have been taking care of the child while we were together and it happens we break up and I stop taking care of the child, are you not going to call me a father just because of my failures?”

“If we are going to look for the faults we won’t be building fathers that we want. “It says happy father’s day, it ends there, and it’s not about the responsibilities. A responsible father depends on one, I can be a fathers because I am your mentor, I can be a father that am not supporting financially but I can just call and check on my child, I can be father that have money but still fails to support but am there physically but not economically, am there emotionally but still am a father.”

“Speaking from experience, my baby daddy have never been there in my kids life so in my own opinion I think happy father’s day means to acknowledge fathers who are present in their children lives, man who are there for their children, I don’t mean for the mothers, am saying their children.”, Norah Moloi mother of three cried.

“Women are reactive to this issues because it hurts to be left alone with children. Seeing other women praising their baby daddies and as for us not even knowing what to say to our children, they don’t even know if this day do exist hurts. I grew up without a father too, I didn’t even had a privilege to wish him that, even happy birthday to him too. I think this now seem like a trend, it’s like a culture now because it’s like everyone is abandoning their children,” Moloi explained.

“There is co-parenting, I mean if you have problem with me exclude the child from our problems. For us to have a healthy children who are mentally fit we ought to be in the same page. Let us hide our problems from our children. When two elephants fight, it is the grass that suffers, that is why you saw on social media even kids venting out about their absent fathers.

“As for fathers who are not in their children’s life why should we wish them father’s day? It is like throwing a seed on rocks and expect it to germinate without proper soil, proper sunlight or even without water and expect to reap at the end of the day.

Do you expect such a planter to be praised that they have sowed anything? You are a planter yes but where is your seedlings, you just threw a seed and abandon it, as for me is a big NO! There is a mistake that men turn to make, they think children cannot see all the struggles mother goes through trying to made ends meets for them and later blame it on baby mamas for using children when tables turns.

“Ask yourself, are we to wish man who denied pregnancy father’s day? What of those who long abandoned their children? What is there to be wished? What is supposed to be happy about the day? We are not bitter, we are asking them to put themselves in our shoes,” Moloi expressed herself.

Adding on Calvin G Zacharia father of one daughter says that was a cry for help to single mothers, he said men who are not there for their children don’t deserve to be wished father’s day since they are not playing their role.

Zacharia urged mothers to involve the authority, “there is no use to pass remarks on social media without taking action. If the parents had messy break up they should find a common ground for the sake of their child/children”. It depresses the kids not having another party not playing the role on their lives.

“I think ladies are bitter, just because some man don’t give us money we start labelling them as deadbeat”, Boitshepho Gasefiwe mother of one. Men have their reasons for not being there for their children. There is always two sides of stories. Some kids I saw on Facebook I feel meddle in elder people’s issues without knowing the facts.

When giving his views, Thando Morgan, father of one daughter highlighted that he feels it depends on someone’s emotional intelligence, some act according to how their baby daddy treated them. “Baby mamas know their baby daddies better to find fit worthy a father title, some are venting out because they suffer alone in raising the kids alone.

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