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The truth about makeup

Women often dream of having flawless skin similarly to that of the famous Disney Princess; ‘Snow White’, in which even the antagonist, the Queen wanted to have beauty that measured up to that of the effortlessly beautiful Snow White.

Perfectly even tone, flawless skin with beautiful lush kissable red lips, almost every woman’s ideal facial dream. What’s more some women look for external validation to sing praises of their flawless skin, but fail to grasp the true concept of beauty. Most of the time we fail to understand what beauty really means.

Make up could be the 21st century glam but where make up is used too much and too often, it may have questions crop up as to why use cosmetics.WeekendLife took to the streets to talk to different women about their reasons for using make up. Some reason that they use it to enhance their beauty, other women opt not to use make up at all. Even so, there is no doubt that make up has been the latest craze that most women are caught up with.

What follows below are some of the interviewees’ reasons for using cosmetics or not using them at all.“I will give you my honest truth, if I had flawless skin and eyebrows and eyelashes I would feel more beautiful in my day to day skin and I would go to any event face naturally naked. But, I do confess to feeling more beautiful when I do get my makeup done because I have eyebrows, and my pigmentation is in order and my spots? What spots?” said Tariro Matibiri.

“I look good especially when my skin is hydrated. I do not struggle with face skin and am grateful for that. I wear makeup once a week usually and I feel good as well. To me with or without makeup it doesn't really change how I feel about myself.”-Nomthandazo Pattleen Mpofu.“I have sisters who struggle with different skin problems and they feel better with their skin looking flawless than not, hence they wear makeup almost always. It makes them feel more beautiful,” Mpofu added.

“I think we have subconsciously done that, I personally wore weaves/wigs nonstop for 6 years! I didn't feel beautiful without them. Going to the grocery store, I needed my wig. Gym, I needed my wig. But that was not true. I didn't need it. This year I rocked my natural hair for the first time because I changed my perspective! These things should enhance us and not define us,” Mwai Diana Kalitera.

There’s no doubt that women are exceptionally gorgeous with their makeup on, in some cases thanks to the magical hands of makeup artists. Even if that is the case, we can’t lose our identity by constantly wearing makeup, wigs and weaves, from the first day of the year to the last day of the year. There has to be a need to embrace who you really are without any enhancements whatsoever, it is imperative that women do not seek validation of what beauty is from how they look.

WeekendLife also took time to engage men on their thoughts about makeup. Most of these men are of the view that a woman without makeup is more desirable and say there is beauty in being natural. Some however say it depends on how a person has done it, as they say some women really look amazing in makeup. Some believe women are not entirely satisfied with how God made them hence the use of makeup and wigs.What a beauty!

Boity Bendu of Beautifully BW and Lover of Make-Up BW who also specialises in hair and wigs and cosmetic products shared with WeekendLife that a lot of people are of the perception that make-up is for the ugly and the insecure, as for her it is a creative outlet.“I love doing my makeup and looking in the mirror and saying ‘wow! I did that!’ It requires a bit of skill and talent and it is not everyone who can sculpt their brows or blend foundation till it looks like skin or contour their nose,” she said.
“From a professional opinion, make-up highlights the best features of an individual. 

It just makes them pop! I love getting people's reactions. Especially first time make-up clients that do their make-up and just have this spark in their eyes. Some even cry not because they thought they were ugly before but at the effort that someone has put in actually making them more beautiful,” she said.She further highlighted that makeup isn't always the reason why women have bad skin.“I use original make-up products and my skin is amazing. I have however, experienced some acne and pimples that left me with minor scars way back when I was getting into make-up.

I would buy knock offs like black opal foundation at P30 and make-up pros would tell you the original starts at P250 or more.  That's when I learnt to invest in quality products and I always tell my clients to do the same,” she said.


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Lifestyle enthusiasts feel Big Brother vibes

27th January 2023

This past weekend MultiChoice Botswana hosted media and lifestyle enthusiasts in Oodi for an evening of fun, drama and everything in between. The treat dubbed Big Brother Titans Botswana media challenge basically recreated the Big Brother experience right here in Botswana.

Big Brother Titans is the joint South African and Nigerian edition of the Big Brother franchise. The series follows contestants as they live in an isolated house and compete for a cash prize at the end of the show by avoiding being evicted from the house by the viewers.

These viewers vote their favorite housemates to stay on the show. The show features housemates from South Africa and Nigeria. The first season of the show premiered on January 15 2023 on DStv.

DStv Botswana Corporate Affairs Manager, Thembile Legwaila told WeekendLife that they saw it critical to host media friends to experience how it feels by being in the Big Brother house.

“For the very first time in history of Big Brother, we’ve seen the merging of two superpowers, Mzansi and Naija, with the Big Brother Titans season and what a better way to celebrate the monumental season than hosting our media friends.”


Participants were treated to top notch reception complimented by the Oodi sunset which just blew them away. A special shuttle was organized from Gaborone to Oodi, at a farm house that is just incredible in terms of design, aesthetics and ambience.

Of course they were welcomed by soft cocktails and non-alcoholic beverages for those who are not drinkers, and the next booth was an opportunity for housemates to introduce themselves to the man of the house, Biggie. RB2’s new baby Mdu the Party played the role of Biggie, and he nailed the character.

Some of the contestants were asked what they will do with the grand prize of P5000. With my ongoing voluntary movement, #Pad4HER, I needed the cash prize to push the campaign.  #Pad4HER is a campaign that I started last year with an aim of helping female students from disadvantaged backgrounds to have access to sanitary towels. Anyway, luck was not on my side but my colleague from The Botswana Gazette, Gosego Motsumi emerged as the winner.

We got done with the questions and made way into the house. The party began with more drinks and the first challenge kicked off. For this particular challenge, we were divided into pairs. I was matched with Motsumi and we won the first challenge.


Other housemates asked how we managed but it was simple: we had a strategy before embarking on the challenge. We sat down and debated on what we need to do in order to emerge victorious.

DStv engaged a phenomenal local chef, Rachel Tlagae who served some enchanting, light meal. Its Big Brother Titans so we ought to mind what we eat and also take note of quantities. Chefs also brought some wine to go with the meal and everyone was contented.


Housemates were taken through the last challenge: mental ability. This particular challenge needed them to know who they are as well as knowing their fellow housemates. It was one of the simplest challenges yet difficult. This is where I lost lot of points even though I was at the top (after winning the first challenge).

These housemates were all unique in their own way. From the media side was myself, Sharon Mathala, Leungo Mokgwathi, Gosego Motsumi and Nancy Ramokhua. This is a team which did exceptionally well altogether. Motsumi emerged as the winner, followed by Mathala and me on fourth position.

The third position was won by Loungo Pitse from influencer’s side, and he tagged alongside DJ Gouveia, Dato Seiko, Kedi Molosiwa and Gape Makwati.

Legwaila said “We wanted to have a healthy mix of traditional media (print and radio) as well as social media personalities, artists and content creators in the house. We chose individuals who were characteristically different from each other because variety and diversity is important to us. We of course chose those with outgoing personalities as well as those who are a little more introverted as we wanted the interaction to be authentic and organic. We wanted a solid group of individuals who represented the many different people that make up this beautiful country.”


When quizzed if there are plans to have a similar Big Brother Titans Botswana, Legwaila said “MultiChoice Africa is focused on entertaining audiences all over Africa with the current Big Brother franchises; BB Titans, Mzansi and Naija. Though we have no immediate plans to have a Big Brother Botswana in the future, we are continuously looking at ways to entertain our Botswana audience with local content and we are excited for what’s to come in the next few weeks from our country.”

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DENIM RICHARDS American actor takes local productions to the world

23rd January 2023

American renowned actor, Denim Richards has been in Botswana for quite a while now with one clear mission: the revamp the film and entertainment industry.

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Botswana misses out on Miss Universe again

9th January 2023

The 71st Miss Universe competition will be going down at the New Orleans Morial Convention Center in New Orleans next week in the United States. There are eighty four entrants at this year’s Miss Universe, and Botswana will once again not be a part of the pageant.

The Miss Universe will be hosted by Jeannie Mai and Miss Universe 2012 Olivia Culpo, who last served as host during Miss Universe 2020, while Mai last served as backstage correspondent during Miss Universe 2014. Miss Universe 2018 Catriona Gray and Zuri Hall will serve as backstage correspondents. This will mark the first time in a 70-year history to have an all-female presenting panel.

Botswana last participated at the Miss Universe in 2013, in which the Miss Universe Botswana pageant was won by Tsoane Macheng. Ever since then, Botswana never made its return to the biggest beauty pageant in the world, despite its consistent ability to send a representative to participate at the Miss World competition.

Miss Universe Botswana Director, Safie Sekgwa, allegedly holds the Miss Universe license. Efforts to reach him proved futile, as his mobile phone rung unanswered.

Despite Botswana showing zero efforts in participating at the Miss Universe, the beauty pageants 2019 crown was flanked by two smaller diamonds cut from the same stoned mined in Botswana.

Jewelry designer Mouawad created a new “Power of Unity” crown reportedly worth 5 Million US Dollars, and the title was won by South Africa’s Zozibini Tunzi. She was the third South African to be crowned Miss Universe.


Botswana is said to be one African country with the most beautiful women, but, the poor performance at the Miss Universe, communicates otherwise. Perhaps, representatives at the pageant are not academically gifted, as the Miss Universe tests how keen they are also.

Mpule Kwelagobe made history when she was crowned Miss Universe 1999. That was few months after she was crowed the first ever Miss Universe Botswana. Kwelagobe became the third woman from Africa who was crowned Miss Universe.

In 2000, Miss Universe Botswana then, Joyce Molemoeng did not place at Miss Universe, and the same blue reality struck again in 2001, when Mataila Sikwane also failed drastically.

After a two year hiatus, Miss Universe 2004, Icho Keolotswe also failed to place at Miss Universe. That was the end of participation at Miss Universe, only to return in 2010. Tirelo Ramasedi, Miss Universe 2010 also did not win. The same losing trend followed from 2011 (Larona Kgabo), 2012 (Sheillah Molelekwa) and 2013 (Tsaone Macheng).


Preparations are ongoing to hold the 71st Miss Universe competition. Harnaaz Sandhu of India will crown her successor at the end of the event. There are nine countries which have withdrawn from participating: Denmark, Hungary, Ireland, Israel, Kazakhstan, Kenya, Morocco, Romania and Sweden.

As for returns, Miss Universe 2022 will see Angola, Belize, Indonesia, Kyrgyzstan, Lebanon, Malaysia, Myanmar, Saint Lucia, Seychelles, Switzerland, Trinidad and Tobago as well as Uruguay.

Lebanon won Miss Universe in 1971, Angola in 2011, Trinidad and Tobago in 1977 and1998. Youngest Miss Universe 2022 participants are aged 18, and they are from British Virgin Islands, Iceland and Krgyzstan and Switzerland’s representative is nineteen.


Miss Universe has unveiled its new crown for the 71st competition. The new crown, “The Crown Number 12: Force for Good” was crafted by world renowned luxury jeweler Mouawad.

The new crown, with pear-shaped blue sapphires surrounded by diamonds and valued at approximately 5.58 Million US Dollars, will be the prestigious mark of honor for the winner this coming week.

According to the Miss Universe organization, the Force for Good crown emanates Mouawad’s passion for crafting the extraordinary, featuring the meticulous setting of sapphires and diamonds, whose design is replete with symbolism.

Reflecting the point that significant change does not happen in an instant, the base of the crown is set with diamonds symbolizing the status quo. From the base upwards, rippling wave motifs reflect the momentum of change, with their varying sizes portraying that this momentum gains ground gradually through advocacy at different moments and places, to audiences large and small, over time.

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