The girl child: Premature marriage a cause of concern
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“A young girl aged 12 offered in marriage to an octogenarian polygamist who already has 10 wives!”
A local newspaper carried that story. And hair-raising stories of this nature feature prominently in the news. Some prophets of doom have attributed this phenomenon to some of the signs of the times. I certainly beg to differ. You were also told that this development is caused by unfriendly economic times bedevilling our society but I say unto you: The problem, as I see it, is mostly gender related. This article is in two phases: Today it will capture the definition, manifestation and implications of gender on the rights of the girl child and in the oncoming epistle venture into the way forward.
What is gender? According to both common nonsense and everyday English parlance, the term gender means sex. Admittedly, the two terms are synonyms but can hardly be employed interchangeably. Could they? A big “NO’ indeed. The term sex, on one hand, is a concept that is biologically determined and deals with whether one is either male or female and that determination can be perceived with the naked eye.
For example, if we doubt someone’s sex we can easily ask him to strip nude naked and invade his private sphere.Gender, on the other hand, is a social construct .It is sociologically determined andor comes from socialisation. In line with this reasoning ,the American psychoanalyst ,Robert Stoller, as cited in Sociology in Perspective by Mark Kirby et al, distinguishes sex and gender, and rightly so ,in the following manner:
——–the anatomical features which mark out men and women might be labelled as ‘sex’ while ‘gender’ is culturally constructed’ (1997:161).
Sociologically speaking, socialisation is a process by which the norms and values of the society are inculcated into one from birth to death. It is the politics of the sexes or what we associate the sexes with. Here we are talking about masculinity and femininity. Also included in the universal set are concepts matriarchy and patriarchy, the latter of which encourages the subordination of women and the attendant glorification of macho societies.
If I were to pose and ask you right now about what God‘s sex really is, the most spontaneous response, and ironically from women themselves, for that matter, will surely be that He is male. That response is quite understandable because it is how we have been socialised. Women are expected to be emotional while men must be rational.
Men must also be stoical and indifferent to pain. I am sure those so much into literature would remember the tragic hero, okonkwo, in Chinua Achebe‘s “Things Fall Apart” and he is a summarised version of a classic description of manhood. The problem, as I see it, is deeply rooted in our culture and, sadly, our culture is male dominated. It is deeply rooted in patriarchy.
Since the earliest of the times women have been portrayed as sex toys or objects of male sexual gratification. I am sure those who have witnessed them dance in a sexually suggestive manner would understand what this writer means here. The dancing style speaks volumes and seems to be confirming or lending credibility to such claims and stereotypes. It is hardly surprising, therefore, that when parents buy a toy for the girl child it is almost always a doll while the boy child gets a toy gun or model car.
Parents are thus re-enforcing the view that getting married and procreating children is the ultimate good in life for the girl child. The afore described is the ascribed role forof women and there is virtually nothing more pleasing to a woman than the mere prospects of getting married.
From a tender age the girl child is taught how to please her prospective spouse in bed and this ‘apprenticeship’ is attained through various initiation ceremonies .Against that background ,the girl child has been rushing to get married at a very tender age and at the slightest given opportunity in order to put the newly acquired theory into practice.
When in times of financial crises such as the ones obtaining in Zimbabwe at the moment, parents are always ready and raring to have the girl child pull out of school in favour of the boy child who, it is erroneously believed, is the only one who can maintain the family name. Perhaps, to borrow Chinua Achebe‘s philosophy, in” Things Fall Apart”, the boy child can best be enlikened to;
One of “— the young suckers that will grow when the old banana tree dies”
An idle mind, they say, is the devil’s workshop. Those girls idling around, and out of school, would want to seek solace in marriage. In some extreme cases the girl child is offered in marriage to a well-to –do man by her poverty stricken parents in exchange for money, the root cause of all evils. Which is precisely why in a sense some people link this problem to economic ills besetting the society .Again this writer does not totally subscribe to this amateurish reasoning because if it were so this problem should then affect both the girl and the boy child and not just one sex being at the receiving end.
Some primitive communities still practice that ritual of giving away a virgin girl child to a murdered person‘s relatives as part of payment to appease the angry spirits. As a result, the unfortunate girl gets married to the deceased person‘s relatives even if she does not approve of the marriage, let alone, love the man concerned at all.
For fear of opening up the proverbial Pandora’s Box, I would not venture into certain religious sects’ practices of arranged marriages between extremely young girls and very old church members under the guise that such marriages would have obtained God’s seal of approval. All this is a gross violation of the girl child‘s fundamental right to freedom of association.
Needless to say, the macho society encourages men to feed on a diet of sexual aggression, that is rape, as a way of subordinating women and, unfortunately, these women also include the girl child. Instead of having the culprits prosecuted for this act of criminality, the girl‘s parents would rather have the perpetrator marry the young girl victim.
Perpetrators of rape on the young girls include those HIV positive who erroneously believe that being intimate with young people would help cure their ailment and also misinformed business tycoons who have an uncanny propensity of directing their sexual venom into the girl child out of the mistaken belief that such a sexual encounter would boost the latter‘s business fortune.
Lest you forget -a typical macho man believes that deflowering and marrying young virgins would surely boost his ego and to him it is part and parcel of trophy collection! And what are the implications of this tendency onto the girl child?:
Apart from exposure to HIVAIDS, the girl child is being thrust into the world of adulthood earlier than was the case in the yesteryears. Without the much needed education, a catalyst for the acquisition of economic resources, the empowerment of women, a concept that has gained popular usage in recent years, will always remain unrealistic, if not romantic.
Furthermore, the girl‘s mind is still naive and therefore exploitable given that she has not been exposed to the vulgar aspects of life. That makes her ill-equipped to deal with life‘s challenges as a wife and parent, for that matter, while her so-called husband does have an inexhaustible wealth of experience in that regard. Coupled with these misfortunes, the girl child cannot realize her immense potential, not even an iota, and the nation at large cannot derive maximum benefit out of that potential.
The sad reality is that our legislation hardly makes considerable strides in righting the current wrong in which women, in general, and the girl child ,in particular, are treated ,at best ,as playing second fiddle to their boy counterparts ,and , at worst, as if outside the bounds of normal society.
This flaw is understandable given that legislation ,just like customary law and the Roman-Dutch Common law, reflects the interests of males: customary law is a product of the historical development of the so-called culture which ,as already alluded to, is largely patriarchal in nature. All Roman-Dutch scholars were either male or were influenced by patriarchy.
Across the globe there are just a few islands of female legislators in a vast sea of male ones. You need to know that before a law comes into existence it starts off as a Bill and, of course, in order for it to pass a litmus test it must have been subjected to rigorous voting. In their sane minds men would never vote for a Bill that is potentially prejudicial to their own interests but, instead, one that tends to marginalise women.
The bible, also, cannot go un-accused in this regard because all the 5 books of the Old Testament were written by a man, Moses, who was motivated by the desire to elevate both patriarchy and the Abrahamic tradition. Those who wrote after him, though there are some slight variations here and there with the Mosaic ideas, were simply freshening his ideological skeleton.
In conclusion, the reader must have noted that the problems affecting the girl child are neither natural nor God-given but result from socialisation in which patriarchy plays centre-stage .In as much the same way they can be changed through the same tool, socialisation. See you next week.
Kungwengwe Star Charles Is a law lecturer at Gaborone University Of Law In Botswana and a self-styled gender activist.
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Here, we explore some of the most notable global events and trends and the potential impact or bearing they have on the local and global market.
Governments and companies around the world have been increasingly focused on transitioning towards renewable energy sources such as solar and wind power. This shift is motivated by concerns about climate change and the need to reduce greenhouse gas emissions. Africa, including Botswana, is part of these discussions, as we work to collectively ensure a greener and more sustainable future. Indeed, this is now a greater priority the world over. It aligns closely with the increase in Environmental, Social, and Governance (ESG) investing being observed. ESG investing has become increasingly popular, and many investors are now looking for companies that are focused on sustainability and reducing their carbon footprint. This trend could have significant implications for the oil and fuel industry, which is often viewed as environmentally unsustainable. Relatedly and equally key are the evolving government policies. Government policies and regulations related to the Oil and Gas industry are likely to continue evolving with discussions including incentives for renewable energy and potentially imposing stricter regulations on emissions.
The COVID-19 pandemic has also played a strong role. Over the last two years, the pandemic had a profound impact on the Oil and Gas industry (and fuel generally), leading to a significant drop in demand as travel and economic activity slowed down. As a result, oil prices plummeted, with crude oil prices briefly turning negative in April 2020. Most economies have now vaccinated their populations and are in recovery mode, and with the recovery of the economies, there has been recovery of oil prices; however, the pace and sustainability of recovery continues to be dependent on factors such as emergence of new variants of the virus.
This period, which saw increased digital transformation on the whole, also saw accelerated and increased investment in technology. The Oil and Gas industry is expected to continue investing in new digital technologies to increase efficiency and reduce costs. This also means a necessary understanding and subsequent action to address the impacts from the rise of electric vehicles. The growing popularity of electric vehicles is expected to reduce demand for traditional gasoline-powered cars. This has, in turn, had an impact on the demand for oil.
Last but not least, geopolitical tensions have played a tremendous role. Geopolitical tensions between major oil-producing countries can and has impacted the supply of oil and fuel. Ongoing tensions in the Middle East and between the US and Russia could have an impact on global oil prices further, and we must be mindful of this.
On the home front in Botswana, all these discussions are relevant and the subject of discussion in many corporate and even public sector boardrooms. Stanbic Bank Botswana continues to take a lead in supporting the Oil and Gas industry in its current state and as it evolves and navigates these dynamics. This is through providing financing to support Oil and Gas companies’ operations, including investments in new technologies. The Bank offers risk management services to help oil and gas companies to manage risks associated with price fluctuations, supply chain disruptions and regulatory changes. This includes offering hedging products and providing advice on risk management strategies.
Advisory and support for sustainability initiatives that the industry undertakes is also key to ensuring that, as companies navigate complex market conditions, they are more empowered to make informed business decisions. It is important to work with Oil and Gas companies to develop and implement sustainability strategies, such as reducing emissions and increasing the use of renewable energy. This is key to how partners such as Stanbic Bank work to support the sector.
Last but not least, Stanbic Bank stands firmly in support of Botswana’s drive in the development of the sector with the view to attain better fuel security and reduce dependence risk on imported fuel. This is crucial towards ensuring a stronger, stabler market, and a core aspect to how we can play a role in helping drive Botswana’s growth. Continued understanding, learning, and sustainable action are what will help ensure the Oil and Gas sector is supported towards positive, sustainable and impactful growth in a manner that brings social, environmental and economic benefit.
Loago Tshomane is Manager, Client Coverage, Corporate and Investment Banking (CIB), Stanbic Bank Botswana

So, the conclusion is brands are important. I start by concluding because one hopes this is a foregone conclusion given the furore that erupts over a botched brand. If a fast food chef bungles a food order, there’d be possibly some isolated complaint thrown. However, if the same company’s marketing expert or agency cooks up a tasteless brand there is a country-wide outcry. Why? Perhaps this is because brands affect us more deeply than we care to understand or admit. The fact that the uproar might be equal parts of schadenfreude, black twitter-esque criticism and, disappointment does not take away from the decibel of concern raised.
A good place to start our understanding of a brand is naturally by defining what a brand is. Marty Neumier, the genius who authored The Brand Gap, offers this instructive definition – “A brand is a person’s gut feel about a product or service”. In other words, a brand is not what the company says it is. It is what the people feel it is. It is the sum total of what it means to them. Brands are perceptions. So, brands are defined by individuals not companies. But brands are owned by companies not individuals. Brands are crafted in privacy but consumed publicly. Brands are communal. Granted, you say. But that doesn’t still explain why everybody and their pet dog feel entitled to jump in feet first into a brand slug-fest armed with a hot opinion. True. But consider the following truism.
Brands are living. They act as milestones in our past. They are signposts of our identity. Beacons of our triumphs. Indexes of our consumption. Most importantly, they have invaded our very words and world view. Try going for just 24 hours without mentioning a single brand name. Quite difficult, right? Because they live among us they have become one of us. And we have therefore built ‘brand bonds’ with them. For example, iPhone owners gather here. You love your iPhone. It goes everywhere. You turn to it in moments of joy and when we need a quick mood boost. Notice how that ‘relationship’ started with desire as you longingly gazed upon it in a glossy brochure. That quickly progressed to asking other people what they thought about it. Followed by the zero moment of truth were you committed and voted your approval through a purchase. Does that sound like a romantic relationship timeline. You bet it does. Because it is. When we conduct brand workshops we run the Brand Loyalty ™ exercise wherein we test people’s loyalty to their favourite brand(s). The results are always quite intriguing. Most people are willing to pay a 40% premium over the standard price for ‘their’ brand. They simply won’t easily ‘breakup’ with it. Doing so can cause brand ‘heart ache’. There is strong brand elasticity for loved brands.
Now that we know brands are communal and endeared, then companies armed with this knowledge, must exercise caution and practise reverence when approaching the subject of rebranding. It’s fragile. The question marketers ought to ask themselves before gleefully jumping into the hot rebranding cauldron is – Do we go for an Evolution (partial rebrand) or a Revolution(full rebrand)? An evolution is incremental. It introduces small but significant changes or additions to the existing visual brand. Here, think of the subtle changes you’ve seen in financial or FMCG brands over the decades. Evolution allows you to redirect the brand without alienating its horde of faithful followers. As humans we love the familiar and certain. Change scares us. Especially if we’ve not been privy to the important but probably blinkered ‘strategy sessions’ ongoing behind the scenes. Revolutions are often messy. They are often hard reset about-turns aiming for a total new look and ‘feel’.
Hard rebranding is risky business. History is littered with the agony of brands large and small who felt the heat of public disfavour. In January 2009, PepsiCo rebranded the Tropicana. When the newly designed package hit the shelves, consumers were not having it. The New York Times reports that ‘some of the commenting described the new packaging as ‘ugly’ ‘stupid’. They wanted their old one back that showed a ripe orange with a straw in it. Sales dipped 20%. PepsiCo reverted to the old logo and packaging within a month. In 2006 Mastercard had to backtrack away from it’s new logo after public criticism, as did Leeds United, and the clothing brand Gap. AdAge magazine reports that critics most common sentiment about the Gap logo was that it looked like something a child had created using a clip-art gallery. Botswana is no different. University of Botswana had to retreat into the comfort of the known and accepted heritage strong brand. Sir Ketumile Masire Teaching Hospital was badgered with complaints till it ‘adjusted’ its logo.
So if the landscape of rebranding is so treacherous then whey take the risk? Companies need to soberly assess they need for a rebrand. According to the fellows at Ignyte Branding a rebrand is ignited by the following admissions :
Our brand name no longer reflects our company’s vision.
We’re embarrassed to hand out our business cards.
Our competitive advantage is vague or poorly articulated.
Our brand has lost focus and become too complex to understand. Our business model or strategy has changed.
Our business has outgrown its current brand.
We’re undergoing or recently underwent a merger or acquisition. Our business has moved or expanded its geographic reach.
We need to disassociate our brand from a negative image.
We’re struggling to raise our prices and increase our profit margins. We want to expand our influence and connect to new audiences. We’re not attracting top talent for the positions we need to fill. All the above are good reasons to rebrand.
The downside to this debacle is that companies genuinely needing to rebrand might be hesitant or delay it altogether. The silver lining I guess is that marketing often mocked for its charlatans, is briefly transformed from being the Archilles heel into Thanos’ glove in an instant.
So what does a company need to do to safely navigate the rebranding terrain? Companies need to interrogate their brand purpose thoroughly. Not what they think they stand for but what they authentically represent when seen through the lens of their team members. In our Brand Workshop we use a number of tools to tease out the compelling brand truth. This section always draws amusing insights. Unfailingly, the top management (CEO & CFO)always has a vastly different picture of their brand to the rest of their ExCo and middle management, as do they to the customer-facing officer. We have only come across one company that had good internal alignment. Needless to say that brand is doing superbly well.
There is need a for brand strategies to guide the brand. One observes that most brands ‘make a plan’ as they go along. Little or no deliberate position on Brand audit, Customer research, Brand positioning and purpose, Architecture, Messaging, Naming, Tagline, Brand Training and may more. A brand strategy distils why your business exists beyond making money – its ‘why’. It defines what makes your brand what it is, what differentiates it from the competition and how you want your customers to perceive it. Lacking a brand strategy disadvantages the company in that it appears soul-less and lacking in personality. Naturally, people do not like to hang around humans with nothing to say. A brand strategy understands the value proposition. People don’t buy nails for the nails sake. They buy nails to hammer into the wall to hang pictures of their loved ones. People don’t buy make up because of its several hues and shades. Make up is self-expression. Understanding this arms a brand with an iron clad clad strategy on the brand battlefield.
But perhaps you’ve done the important research and strategy work. It’s still possible to bungle the final look and feel. A few years ago one large brand had an extensive strategy done. Hopes were high for a top tier brand reveal. The eventual proposed brand was lack-lustre. I distinctly remember, being tasked as local agency to ‘land’ the brand and we outright refused. We could see this was a disaster of epic proportions begging to happen. The brand consultants were summoned to revise the logo. After a several tweaks and compromises the brand landed. It currently exists as one of the country’s largest brands. Getting the logo and visual look right is important. But how does one know if they are on the right path? Using the simile of a brand being a person – The answer is how do you know your outfit is right? It must serve a function, be the right fit and cut, it must be coordinated and lastly it must say something about you. So it is possible to bath in a luxurious bath gel, apply exotic lotion, be facebeat and still somehow wear a faux pas outfit. Avoid that.
Another suggestion is to do the obvious. Pre-test the logo and its look and feel on a cross section of your existing and prospective audience. There are tools to do this. Their feedback can save you money, time and pain. Additionally one must do another obvious check – use Google Image to verify the visual outcome and plain Google search to verify the name. These are so obvious they are hopefully for gone conclusions. But for the brands that have gone ahead without them, I hope you have not concluded your brand journeys as there is a world of opportunity waiting to be unlocked with the right brand strategy key.
Cliff Mada is Head of ArmourGetOn Brand Consultancy, based in Gaborone and Cape Town.
cliff@armourgeton.com

The Ibrahim Index of African Governance (IIAG) is the most comprehensive dataset measuring African governance performance through a wide range of 81 indicators under the categories of Security & Rule of law, Participation, Rights & Inclusion, Foundations of Economic Opportunity, and Human Development. It employs scores, expressed out of 100, which quantify a country’s performance for each governance measure and ranks, out of 54, in relation to the 54 African countries.
The 2022 IIAG Overall Governance score is 68.1 and ranks Botswana at number 5 in Africa. In 2019 Botswana was ranked 2nd with an overall score of 73.3. That is a sharp decline. The best-performing countries are Mauritius, Seychelles, Tunisia, and Cabo Verde, in that order. A glance at the categories shows that Botswana is in third place in Africa on the Security and Rule of law; ninth in the Participation, Rights & Inclusion Category – indicating a shrinking participatory environment; eighth for Foundations of Economic Opportunity category; and fifth in the Human Development category.
The 2022 IIAG comes to a sweeping conclusion: Governments are less accountable and transparent in 2021 than at any time over the last ten years; Higher GDP does not necessarily indicate better governance; rule of law has weakened in the last five years; Democratic backsliding in Africa has accelerated since 2018; Major restrictions on freedom of association and assembly since 2012. Botswana is no exception to these conclusions. In fact, a look at the 10-year trend shows a major challenge. While Botswana remains in the top 5 of the best-performing countries in Africa, there are signs of decline, especially in the categories of Human Development and Security & Rule of law.
I start with this picture to show that Botswana is no longer the poster child for democracy, good governance, and commitment to the rule of law that it once was. In fact, to use the term used in the IIAG, Botswana is experiencing a “democratic backsliding.”
The 2021 Transparency International Corruption Perception Index (CPI) had Botswana at 55/ 100, the lowest ever score recorded by Botswana dethroning Botswana as Africa’s least corrupt country to a distant third place, where it was in 2019 with a CPI of 61/100. (A score closer to zero denotes the worst corrupt and a score closer to 100 indicates the least corrupt country). The concern here is that while other African states are advancing in their transparency and accountability indexes, Botswana is backsliding.
The Transitional National Development Plan lists participatory democracy, the rule of law, transparency, and accountability, as key “deliverables,” if you may call those deliverables. If indeed Botswana is committed to these principles, she must ratify the African Charter on Democracy Elections and Governance (ACDEG).
The African Charter on Democracy Elections and Governance is the African Union’s principal policy document for advancing democratic governance in African Union member states. The ACDEG embodies the continent’s commitment to a democratic agenda and set the standards upon which countries agreed to be held accountable. The Charter was adopted in 2007 and came into force a decade ago, in 2012.
Article 2 of the Charter details its objectives among others as to a) Promote adherence, by each State Party, to the universal values and principles of democracy and respect for human rights; b) Promote and protect the independence of the judiciary; c) Promote the establishment of the necessary conditions to foster citizen participation, transparency, access to information, freedom of the press and accountability in the management of public affairs; d) Promote gender balance and equality in the governance and development processes.
The Charter emphasizes certain principles through which member states must uphold: Citizen Participation, Accountable Institutions, Respect for Human Rights, Adherence to the principles of the Rule of Law, Respect for the supremacy of the constitution and constitutional order, Entrenchment of democratic Principles, Separation of Powers, Respect for the Judiciary, Independence and impartiality of electoral bodies, best practice in the management of elections. These are among the top issues that Batswana have been calling for, that they be entrenched in the new Constitution.
The ACDEG is a revolutionary document. Article 3 of the ACDEG, sets guidance on the principles that must guide the implementation of the Charter among them: Effective participation of citizens in democratic and development processes and in the governance of public affairs; Promotion of a system of government that is representative; Holding of regular, transparent, free and fair elections; Separation of powers; Promotion of gender equality in public and private institutions and others.
Batswana have been calling for laws that make it mandatory for citizen participation in public affairs, more so, such calls have been amplified in the just-ended “consultative process” into the review of the Constitution of Botswana. Many scholars, academics, and Batswana, in general, have consistently made calls for a constitution that provides for clear separation of powers to prevent concentration of power in one branch, in Botswana’s case, the Executive, and provide for effective checks and balances. Other countries, like Kenya, have laws that promote gender equality in public and private institutions inscribed in their constitutions. The ACDEG could be a useful advocacy tool for the promotion of gender equality.
Perhaps more relevant to Botswana’s situation now is Article 10 of the Charter. Given how the constitutional review process unfolded, the numerous procedural mistakes and omissions, the lack of genuine consultations, the Charter principles could have provided a direction, if Botswana was party to the Charter. “State Parties shall ensure that the process of amendment or revision of their constitution reposes on national consensus, obtained, if need be, through referendum,” reads part of Article 10, giving clear clarity, that the Constitution belong to the people.
With the African Charter on Democracy Elections and Governance in hand, ratified, and also given the many shortfalls in the current constitution, Batswana can have a tool in hand, not only to hold the government accountable but also a tool for measuring aspirations and shortfalls of our governance institutional framework.
Botswana has not signed, nor has it acceded or ratified the ACDEG. The time to ratify the ACDEG is now. Our Movement, Motheo O Mosha Society, with support from the Democracy Works Foundation and The Charter Project Africa, will run a campaign to promote, popularise and advocate for the ratification of the Charter (#RatifytheCharter Campaign). The initiative is co-founded by the European Union. The Campaign is implemented with the support of our sister organizations: Global Shapers Community – Gaborone Hub, #FamilyMeetingBW, Botswana Center for Public Integrity, Black Roots Organization, Economic Development Forum, Molao-Matters, WoTech Foundation, University of Botswana Political Science Society, Young Minds Africa and Branding Akosua.
Ratifying the Charter would reaffirm Botswana’s commitment to upholding strong democratic values, and respect for constitutionalism, and promote the rule of law and political accountability. Join us in calling the Government of Botswana to #RatifyTheCharter.
*Morena MONGANJA is the Chairperson of Motheo O Mosha society; a grassroots movement advocating for a new Constitution for Botswana. Contact: socialcontractbw@gmail.com or WhatsApp 77 469 362.