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Young couples retreat could essentially be a saving grace

Every relationship, especially romantic ones, requires on-going work. It’s so easy to get caught up in the daily grind and lose sight on not only yourself, but the needs of your partner. Whether you have agreed to become one in marriage or are on the path to matrimony, you know there is effort required to keep you and yours going. This is where many couples should seek outside help in keeping their bonds strong and unbreakable. 

A single weekend spent at a couples retreat cannot fix a broken relationship, so don’t think of it as your support system. Think of a couple’s retreat as a tool that acts as a good first step toward rebuilding some of the connection and trust that has been lost. Couple’s retreats force them to interact and focus on the challenges they are facing together. This is often a step toward solving long-term problems and reconnecting as a young couple. 

It’s not so common in Botswana to host occasions for young couples, especially those who are not married. The culture here is actually different, young couples date for a certain time and part ways, nobody upkeeps about how they can toil around tests and trials they experience and continue as a happy couple. Some of these dares, if not solved, may lead to severe outcomes such as passion killings, recklessness, downheartedness and lack of trust moving forward. Well, some folks have found it substantial to bring elucidations to these hitches. They are ardent to see variation, imparting young couples and see them smirk at the end of the day. Well, I must say this is a prodigious thing, highly commendable. One amongst many is Bogadi Serumola, a qualified nurse, founder and host of My Story Your Story talk show, author, founder of Bogadi Serumola Charity foundation, founder and Visionary behind Sisterhood Retreats, news anchor, television presenter and an inspirational speaker. She wears many titles, and I would confidently say she is a rare breed…

Serumola, through her organisation Sisterhood Retreats will on the 26th October host young couples for a retreat that is strictly for unmarried couples. ‘’Young couples retreat is an investment and a building block for young couples that are willing to pay a great and godly foundation to their relationship, those especially looking forward to commitment and establishing success towards marriage’’ she said in an exclusive interview with Weekend Life in Gaborone this week. She wished that young couples could learn few important elements that they should make a habit of in courtship before they walk down the aisle, to say ‘’I do’’. Serumola revealed that young couples could learn to have strategy meetings in their relationships; they could challenge each other on something demanding as often and the importance of communication that is actually the root to ever-lasting happy relationship. 

‘’Communication plays an important role in building a relationship; it is one of the basics that a young couple should at least master, if they fail others. Not that I encourage them to, but they should work on perfecting all of those basics, as a relationship cannot last if they are not met. This retreat acts as a platform to share insights on how to reach a successful relationship, and not only that, making sure it’s pleasurable and fun to be in. young couples retreat is essentially a vacation. Couples will dedicate time to their partners to work on their relationship. Many relationships go from ecstasy to dreaded unhappiness due to lack of attention and communication. When you make time to attend this retreat, you are letting your partner know that your relationship is important to you. And who doesn’t want to attend a retreat that provides uninterrupted time to get to know each other again and remember why you fell I love in the first place’’ she said. She further underlined that young couples are sometimes reluctant to dive into delicate issues such as sex and money. During this retreat, Serumola stressed that young couples will likely be given exercises to work as a couple and address these issues, which in turn will teach them important communication skills that will allow them to sort through the junk without drama.

‘’These couple swill also be given rules to follow to ensure that both parties get the chance to air their opinions. Many couples find it easier to address sensitive subjects during a couples retreat. Once all issues are addressed, the young couple will feel more at ease, which eases the tension in the relationship’’. The retreat, however, has not found a young married couple to share with unmarried couples who will be attending the retreat, so I learnt. However, Serumola noted that she is working around the clock to get that sorted. Hopefully, that will be arranged the time of the event arrives, as young couples are looking forward to cram from their peers. Serumola added that ‘’difficulties in relationships are often the catalyst for couples to lose sight of themselves as a couple, which can cause each of them to address issues from a ‘’me’’ perspective. A retreat reminds a couple of its common goals and aspirations. This can help the couple to revert back to ‘’we’’, which creates unity. This will help them to tackle problems together in future’’.

I, personally, am looking forward for this retreat, I execrate many young couples need it. Not saying that I want acumens on how to enhance my affiliation, but I should be invited. I just hope my invitation arrives well on time, so as to see how many of young couples in Botswana retort to some of these events, some are way too enigmatic and introverted, but it’s essential they speak out, and I pen something down! That’s principally my job! 

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LERAPO: Becoming a radio host and property analyst

12th January 2021
Thabiso Tshwenyana

Thabiso Tshwenyana is certainly a bright spark. He has been hitting the books, at the same time pushing hustle on radio! Well, you may not know who I’m talking about right now unless I refer to him as ‘Lerapo’, or ‘Bundle of Joy ya Radio’, as he is commonly called by his aficionados on radio.

Lerapo is resolute on taking over the entertainment and broadcasting space, of course wearing many hats as a radio host, content producer and a socialite. Not only that, he is a fresh Real Estate graduate currently functioning as a property analyst.

One may wonder how this young lad (currently 23-years-old) managed to be on radio, at the same time pursuing his Degree in Real Estate. Well, he says it took grit, time management and really doing what one likes. And he is right, because in today’s world anyone can call themselves a presenter. But it takes unparalleled skill, unbreakable determination, and heaps of talent to captivate an audience of millions.

Whether or not you think he’s the best, there’s no arguing that Lerapo is possibly the most prominent young radio presenter to hail from the Botswana. Initially starting his career in 2017, Lerapo earned himself a reputation as ‘Bundle of Joy ya Radio’ by consistently pushing the boundaries of what could be said and done.

His shows consists of outrageous humor and youthful content that’s shocking the radio establishment, and taking young people to cloud 9. The show is called The Youth Café on Duma FM, and airs every Saturday between 2PM and 2PM, broadcasting in vernacular.

When sharing with Weekendlife his startling life on radio and how he will be turning it down this year, he says the journey started back in 2017 at RB2 where he hosted a 30-minute feature. “I am definitely a go-getter. I love radio and this has been my childhood dream! I held onto this dream and survived against all odds. I am happy to be on radio because after all the knockings, snubs and distressing coercions, I persisted nonetheless. Sometimes it was just a matter of being at the right place at the right time.”

Before joining Duma FM in 2019, he was a content producer at yet another youthful urban radio station Yarona FM. At the age of 23-years old, Lerapo has worked at three radio stations, both government and private urban stations. Remarkable! For someone aspiring to be on radio, I can confidently say he is the pluq for inspiration and familiarity.

He continued to dish more on what radio really needs, saying “Taking time to perfect the craft, being open to learn from others and just digging down on books and the internet on how radio works did magic to me. It became easier to comprehend fully what I needed and how to go about getting it.”

Being a radio presenter means having a whole team prior to going on air. This means having a show prep, and reflecting on how the show went down with your producers or programs manager. Programs manager handles the business of the radio station and leave the voice and personality to the presenter.

Presenters have to follow rules of the programs manager even if they may not see eye-to-eye. They may prefer to play safe and repeat music even though sometimes a presenter prefers to take a risk and make changes to the music. Nevertheless, the success of the radio station lies in programs manager’s hands.

“After a show I usually have a reflection on how it went then I plan for the next show. On Tuesdays I have what we call an ‘air check’ with either the programs manager or his assistant to identify hiccups on the previous show and see how best to work on them to have a great delivery on the next show. Since I produce my own show, I give them a preliminary show prep. Once approved, I start contacting guests to be featured on the show and later share the final show prep a day before the show airs with the bosses.”

Still on his show, he does live reads. These are paid adverts that he discusses with the marketing department prior to his show going live. Well, as for a sizzling playlist, the music compiler knows how to serve him right.

He says a great radio hosts listens, reads and makes a show about the listener. ‘A common mistake we make as radio hosts is that we make the show about us and tend to feel that we know more than the listener. We also ought to respect the listener, these are our clients after all. Radio hosts should also refrain from relying on social media for content, most of it is fake and unverified by relevant authorities.”

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MASK UP: COVID-19 infections in Africa drastically snowballing

12th January 2021
Masks up

December 2019 was the time a case of the contagious Corona-virus was first identified in Wuhan, China. The world has never been the same again, as the deadly virus swept across countries and killed many people.

Symptoms of COVID-19 are variable, but often include fever, cough, fatigue,  breathing difficulties, and loss of smell and   taste. African countries felt the heat too, as the first case reached the continent through travelers returning from hotspots in Asia, Europe and the United States. The first COVID-19 case was recorded in Egypt on 14 February. Since then a total of 52 countries have reported cases.

Most African countries took swift action early on, and it is largely thanks to these efforts to limit gatherings and strengthen public health capacities. Governments introduced back-to-back lockdowns, curfews and the compulsory wearing of masks in public places.

Some countries suspended forthwith cross-border trading, save for commercial and transit cargo related to essential and critical services. Air transportation, tourism and social events were at one point shelved to mitigate the spread of this virus. For many countries, this mechanism helped reduce infections, however, numbers don’t lie. COVID-19 in Africa has since taken a drastic turn, with numbers now surging at an alarming rate.

The neighboring South Africa has from the onset, been the only country in Africa with the highest number of COVID-19 cases. As of Monday January 4th 2021, there were over 1 Million (1 113 349) infections after the country recorded 12 601 new cases post festive season.

The number of Corona-virus deaths in South Africa has now surpassed the 30 000 mark, the highest in the entire continent. Gauteng province continue to record most cases of the COVID-19, now leading with over 301 thousand cases.

Reports from South Africa say mortuaries have ran out of space as COVID-19 bodies’ pile up. Funeral parlor owners say they are under immense pressure and are battling to cope with the high number of burials they have to perform due to deaths from the contagious Corona-virus.

The country is currently under level 3 lockdown. President Cyril Ramaphosa announced during an address that there will be a nationwide curfew from 9PM to 6AM, subsequently banning the sale of alcohol from retail outlets and the on-site consumption.

In Botswana, President Mokgweetsi Masisi extended a curfew until January 31st 2021. In his address to the nation this week, Minister of Health and Wellness Dr Edwin Dikoloti said there shall be no movement of people between 8PM and 4AM until month end while the Presidential COVID-19 Task Force team continue to assess the complexity of the virus.

Botswana currently have over 13 thousand (13 613) confirmed cases of the COVID-19 virus, with a significant number of recoveries that stood at over 12 thousand (12 481), as of Monday this week. The Corona-virus claimed over 45 Batswana lives. There were 563 new cases confirmed on Monday.

According to COVID-19 Case Report, there are 553 859 total tests conducted, 407 055 of which were local tests, while 1827 were transferred out. Zimbabwe has 15,829 confirmed Corona-virus cases and 384 deaths as of January 5, 2021. In response to increased COVID infections, the government instituted a new nationwide lockdown on January 5. Curfew is in effect from 6PM to 6AM. International air travel is still permitted, subject to testing requirements, while international land travel and inter-provincial/inter-city travel are largely prohibited.

As of December 1, the government of Zimbabwe requires all new arrivals to the country to present a negative COVID-19 test result issued within the previous 48 hours. The government provides no option for testing upon arrival for such travelers.

In the Eastern Mediterranean Region, COVID-19 has found its adventure playground. Tunisia and Egypt are two countries with most cases and deaths recorded, with 139 140 and 138 062 cases. From both countries combined, there are over 10 thousand deaths related to COVID-19.

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My Star’s shine hazy without sponsors

28th December 2020
Master Dee

My Star Botswana has consistently been keeping people glued to their screens every Sunday evening to watch their favourites battle it out for the cash price. This has been the case since the show started back in 2007.

The winners of the controversial competition are usually taken to the United Kingdom for sightseeing and benchmarking.

The whole purpose of My Star was to unearth raw talents and flair from the grass-roots. The show Producer and Director, Keabetswe ‘Master Dee’ Sesinyi, together with his team would scout talent from across the country, including rural areas.

Well, things took turns and twists this time around, as the show failed to attract the much desired attention. Many loyal viewers were not aware that the show had started and to my surprise, the grand finale was way too shallow for a show of its magnitude. Even the show producer didn’t like the turn out. My Star 2020 totally lost touch.

Master Dee made no bones about lack of sponsorship harming the plan to throw an over-the-top grand finale. He says despite him being on his feet every time trying to source sponsors, he ran around in circles and was left out in the cold many a-times. One may wonder how tables turned so drastically.

This is extremely unscrupulous for a protuberant talent show. My Star was considered an A-list show, but more than ten years now and the show is still held at Gaborone Technical College hall, it’s scandalous that the venue cannot be upgraded to match the talent and prestige they are looking for.

“I thank you so supporting the arts. I know everyone came here with a goal to see his or her contestant win. Today we doing things in a different way. It won’t be the usual My Star show that we know because of the COVID-19. The arts have been the hardest hit by this pandemic. The fact remains arts are the foundation of all jobs,” said Master Dee.

He hit the nail on the head. This sector has seen dust this pandemic year. It was the first to be shut, and to date, it has been opened in a phased manner. Well, for social events that mount up larger crowds, the story has not changed. This is because the virus spreads easily when many people get together without health protocols being adhered to.

Master Dee, however, expressed discontentment at how My Star ran without a single sponsor. “I personally know what it is to be artistic, and I understand the passion that each contestant has. But do people understand this passion like we do? It is very sad that we are here to see the reality TV show that comes on the national TV channel every Sunday without the main sponsor. Very sad!”

He gave the small team he was working with a pat on the back for helping him see the light at the end of the tunnel.

“These guys make me see the need to try further. When push comes to shove, they assure me that someone will realize the potential of this project. Through this COVID-19, we have sent more than 28 Batswana youth to Universities. And who doesn’t see that>? What is it going to take for people to understand that this project is not about me, and that it is for Batswana?”

“Sometimes when I speak like this I feel like I could shed a tear. But it is painful sometimes when people don’t see what you see. When I go around looking for sponsors, they say I want to enrich myself. I mean who doesn’t want to be rich? It’s just a fuss,” he said.

Nonetheless, Master Dee showed gratitude to the Youth Ministry for making it possible for young people to be admitted at the Universities. I believe education is key, so I had to fight to see them being admitted in educational institutions, he told few guests at the grand finale.

“I will be naïve if I cannot actually echo the sentiments of government assisting in this manner going forward. But enough can be done. We need corporate companies’ to stand up and not just take from us.”

Meanwhile, Neelo Gopolang was crowned the winner of My Star Season 14. She walked away with P100 000 after garnering herself over 70 000 votes from the general public. First runner up, and people’s favourite Queen Garekwe managed to secure only 2000 plus votes, earning P10 000 from the competition. Justice Nyathi was announced as the second runner up, going home with P10 000 as well.

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