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Shattering stereotypes

Inspiring, confident and not just a pretty face- Miss Botswana 2019 2nd Princess Winfred Motcher has shattered stereotypes and made a mark for herself. She was the shortest of them all, and most probably the youngest, but rose to the top nonetheless.

Over the past years a stereotype has been established around the term beauty queen or fashion model. And so the word beauty pageant brings a definite image in our head- tall and thin women posing designer clothes and high heels and layers of makeup on their skin. But there is definitely much more to the life of some beauty pageant winners. Motcher is a model and Miss Botswana 2019 second runner up. This lady has several feathers in her cap.

Motcher is a young entrepreneurial digital marketer and a model that is passionate about the beauty and creative industry, and she is Miss Universe 2013 Top 5 Finalist, Miss Tertiary Schools 2015, Miss Chobe Tourism 2015 as well as Miss Petite 2016. In an exclusive interview with Weekend Life this week in Gaborone, she said ‘’I started modelling, in particular pageantry as a hobby in high school. The first big pageant I entered was Miss Universe 2013 where I was the youngest contestant and made it to Top 5. It was a very controversial pageant and it one way or the other inspired me to enter other pageants that would be fair and recognize my capabilities, talents and confidence on stage’’

‘’I joined Miss Botswana 2019 as a way of breaking the stereotype that you have to be tall to be a great model, I wanted to inspire other petite girls to ignore height limitations because what matters most is the skill and confidence one portrays on stage. I can confidently say most incredible young women out there are driven into dark spaces and their dreams are shattered because of delusions they get to catch on corridors about pageants such as the Miss Botswana, and inevitably that slays their poise to ask more even. It is blue but true, these stereotypes should be dealt with and this is what I will be in favour of during my reign’’

She told Weekend Life that Miss Botswana was not an easy task, as it incorporated all elements of hard-work, endurance, disenchantments as well as diligence. ‘’frankly speaking, I wasn’t laid-back as I presumed. This is a whole project that would obligate one to be prepared mentally, physically and if you were never ready, you would never reach the semi-finals. Achieving the 2nd Princess title was purely based on determination, and I entered the pageant knowing that the end goal was to get a spot in Top 3 and that pushed me to always do my best in everything leading up to the finale’’

Beauty pageants are not all about parading on the runway. The biggest gains from pageant participation were a greater awareness of self in social situations, how to stand, sit, and speak, speech patterns, mannerisms as well as excellent interview skills in corporate career. As a contestant has faced a panel of judges, a job interview is a piece of cake!

Still, it has its own disadvantages. These pageants are not for those who want to use them to burnish their self-esteem. If you need to win a pageant in order to feel good about yourself, do not enter! Your chances of doing well are greatly diminished if you are not confident in your true self and attempting to show the judges what you think they want to see instead of the real you.

For Motcher, entering Miss Botswana was a blessing in disguise. She has learned many things about herself and her confidence has increased over the course of her journey in becoming the second runner up. ‘’I now have confidence to me more outgoing, to speak up about a certain issue or situation, and just talk among a crowd of people. I was nervous, I had mixed emotions but that comes with it; it’s a learning experience and an adjustment. I also enjoyed getting to meet and bond with the variety of girls some of which I’m still close to.

I learned how to take advantage of being different from others, being short meant I got to be centred in almost all photos thus I was visible and memorable. I didn’t let any height remarks get to me because at the end of the day I earned my position amongst other finalists’’
She however implored the private sector, corporate world to join hands in executing Miss Botswana, saying collaboration and concerted efforts can help revamp the pageant.

‘’what needs to improve is the sponsors involvement; Miss Botswana needs more sponsors to reach its full potential. Corporate and government entities should benchmark on how other countries invest in pageants because at the end of it all, a country ambassador is chosen to represent the nation in various platform across the globe’’

‘’there is always room for improvement, yes the pageant is trying to empower young girls but what tends to happen is that most of the benefits goes to the winner, who is the Queen in this regard. As seen this year they did try to get separate deals for other contestants which is a great start to empowering them. For that, I commend them and hope they continue doing so’’ she said

As the second runner up, Motcher will be collaborating with the queen in her projects by volunteering with her at a children’s shelter, as she believes it is better to join forces and do great than try to start her own project with the same mandate. ‘’I also hope to maximize my reign by using my influence to work with and model for local brands as a means of building my portfolio’’ she stressed

Miss Botswana second runner up has a hair business, and I must say she is an angel. Instead of charging Miss Botswana for her hair needs, she offered to sponsor some hair extensions for whenever the Queen Oweditse Phirinyane wants to change her look. This is incredible! This is literally my first time to come across such as amazing gesture, I mean, wow! Anyway, Motcher had this to say ‘’to any girls who wish to enter Miss Botswana competition, do it. Do not let any doubts or negativity hold you back from achieving greatness, believe in yourself’’ You heard it girl, go for it. One last question I had for her, would you come back for Miss Botswana 2020? ‘’I am not 100% sure I’ll be back next year, I might surprise you all’’

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The in thing; Appealing Mani-pedi

1st December 2020
Appealing medi-pedi

Women with manicure more attractive.The latest trending thing within the fashion diary of women has been manicures and pedicures.

It goes beyond the traditional nail polish painted on nails. It has become an art that is almost worshipped by women. A need to have fashion statement.

There’s a lot that goes into a well done manicure and pedicure.

THE SCIENCE OF MANI-PEDIS
According to the London College of Beauty Therapy mani-pedi offers a deep cleansing for nails as well as making sure that they look exceptionally well.

It also assist in removing dead skin and plays a pivotal function in encouraging the growth of new skin.
There is so much that is going on while doing mani-pedi, one of which being a rubbing and a soothing massage to both the feet and the hands. This is imperative in boosting circulation of blood, which can be disturbed during winter season.

Scheduling for mani-pedi from time to time will ensure that nails are in a good condition and lowers the chances of your hands and feet from swelling up especially when you have a busy and hectic schedule that’s why taking a mani-pedi break comes highly recommended.

NAIL BARS
Recently many beauticians have been neck to neck with nail art trends that have been set by fashion forward nations. This has seen the growth of nail tech bars in the country. Nail art varies from normal stick on artificial nails to having acrylic nails that have been sculpted and carved out on the natural nail.
It’s the art on the nails that really grabs attention; glittering diamonds and all sorts of small trinkets adorning nails. It depends on the style of the customer anyway and how flamboyant they want the nails to be.

There are also shapes to choose from, from coffin like shaped nails to ballerina shapes, there is really an array of shapes and designs to choose from. You can also choose the length you want, from talons that resemble a witch with class or a simple rubber base coat that gives both class and simplicity which is healthy for natural nails because rubber base gel is a base coat for gel polish that has an extra elastic and flexible nature. This extra flexibility allows your manicures to flex and bend with your natural nails instead of working against it.

ZURI NAILS
Bringing the art of nails to the shores of Botswana is Kato Masibi, a young lady in her mid-20s and a Media graduate who’s passionate about beauty and therapy.

Speaking to WeekendLife, Masibi explains that her love for manicures and pedicures, emanates from embracing looking good and feeling pretty which is why she founded Zuri Nails. A nail bar offering the best in nail tech in Francistown.They offer both manicure and pedicure services, from extensions to grooming natural nails, foot scrubbing and massages.

‘It is very important to make sure your hands are as clean and as presentable as they can be, as well as nails, they’re very sensitive and we need to ensure that we take good care of them to avoid nail infections. Clean nails say a lot about you as a lady and it says a lot about your hygiene status,” said Masibi.

While Zuri Nails offers different types of manicures, both natural looks and artificial, Masibi said; “Artificial nails are done to enhance a woman’s beauty (gel and acrylic extensions, stick-ons) and natural manicure is done to keep nails clean and protected from infections like cutting nails, filling them, keeping cuticles presentable and applying a nail hardener to keep them strong (no artificial agents used) this one can be done by men too,” she said.

Masibi agrees that there are physical benefits to doing your nails and it’s not just about looking good.
“Both the physical and mental health benefits of getting a nail treatment are extraordinary. Your feet and hands will both look and feel amazing, your stress will go down, the pain will be gone, and your blood circulation will boosted.”

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Dark COVID-19 cloud engulf Festive gigs

23rd November 2020
Festive season to be punctuated by social distancing.

With Government tightening the noose around public areas through the State of Public Emergency tool, it is very unlikely that there could be celebrations this festive season.

Just this week Government, through the Government Gazette announced that hawkers will not be allowed to go inside parked buses to sell their goods; while at the same time buses will only be allowed to enter the bus rank to pick and drop.

This move is further instructive to the entertainment or creative industry that things are far from being let loose to allow for staging of festivals and gigs.

As the year comes to an end, artists normally anticipate increased rate of bookings inside and outside the country. This looks set not to be the case this year as the spread of COVID-19 remains a threat and Botswana is still under the State of Public Emergency.

As things stand large shows that attract multitudes are prohibited, as per the Emergency Regulations signed by President Dr Mokgweetsi Masisi. This is the period when events such as Born & Raised, Gaabo Motho and many more normally have their bread buttered.

When COVID-19 reached Botswana shores in February other big events such as The Hamptons, Gaborone International Music & Culture week (GIMC), African Attire on Fleek, Soul Fill Up with Franco and many more who were anticipating a great return were forced to cancel due to covid-19 restrictions.

Indications point to a Christmas and New Year that would be dominated by law enforcement officers patrolling the streets to ensure adherence to social distancing. Big music industry players like Vee Mampeezy can only hope that their industry will be opened – but this end does not appear in sight.

The popular musician recently spoke to this reporter and confirmed that he is running at a loss, “usually at this time of the year I am usually fully booked,” he said.“Obviously we are affected. We are only hoping that the government will open. We believe they will open.

This year, it is very rough, we are only getting bookings there and there by people who are doing events. I have lost too much money this season. A lot of it,” said Vee Mampeezy.As for Maxy, the songstress is not sure how things are coming up this festive season but she is positive that something is in the pipeline for her.

“I really don’t know; but as for me it’s been better for I have been getting a few corporate gigs there and there due to my corporate market clientele. As for what I’m planning, only time will tell depending on the COVID-19 rules and what is presented on the table for me because I don’t do nor organise my own gigs but I only take bookings from paying event organisers,” she said.

Amidst positive news on vaccine developments and successful trials, the coronavirus is surging in Europe with some countries announcing partial lockdowns to control the spread. On the 16th November 2020, through his formal missive noted that COVID-19 remains a concern in the country as infections continue rising. “As of 11th November 2020, Botswana had recorded 9103 cases.”

So far 30 people have died due to complications linked to COVID-19. Most of the deaths have been recorded in the Greater Gaborone area with the COVID-19 task team analysis depicting that Botswana records one death for every 250 positive cases detected.

Botswana currently has 837 active cases and 6801 recoveries.

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Beauty Tips Skin Prep- The key to flawless make up

23rd November 2020
BEAUTY TIPS-skin prep- the key to flawless make up. PICTURE SOURCE(LUX MAGAZINE, 2020)

PICTURE SOURCE(LUX MAGAZINE, 2020)

BY:MAUNGO MASIAPETO
Have you been drooling over stunning make up looks posted by models, artists and influencers on social media? Have you tried to copy their looks, used the products advertised on their post, but your make up isn’t the same as theirs?

Here is the thing, you can devote hours blending out your foundation, crafting a flawless eye shadow look and mastering the perfect dewy highlight but your makeup will only be as good as its base. What do I mean by that? Well, prepping your skin correctly can make a world of a difference when it comes to applying your makeup.

Follow these steps for a flawless skin prep routine:

Step1: Cleansing has so many benefits for the skin. Not only does regular cleansing help retain pore size, but it also aids to create supple-looking and healthy skin. If you have oily skin, perhaps try the double cleansing trend as this can prevent the production of excess oils. For the best makeup application, cleanse in the remove any toxins built up from the night.

Step 2: Exfoliate, alongside your morning cleanse, it is vital to also exfoliate your skin. Not only will this get rid of any dead skin cells on the surface of your skin, but it will clear the skin of any accumulating sweat, bacteria and dirt. Alongside providing the ultimate smooth base for makeup application, it will help to minimise your pores for flawless looking makeup.

Step 3: Toner is the intermediate step, but it is a step that should not be overlooked. It is a great addition to your skincare routine because it prevents ingrown hairs, refreshes the skin and shrinks pores. For maximum hydration to the skin, toner should be applied after cleansing and before moisturising. Hydrated skin will result in a smooth, plump complexion, and therefore better-looking makeup.

Step 4: Moisturize, Lightly massaging your skin with a moisturizer will hydrate your skin, improve blood circulation and brighten it instantly. Choose a moisturizer that works well for your skin type, anything that does not absorb well or isn’t too hydrating for your skin is of no use. Opt for oil-free moisturizers such as the Ponds Super Light Gel Oil Free Moisturizer for oily skin. Dry skin should be moisturized with cream or oil-based moisturizers such as the Simple Kind To Skin Replenishing Rich Moisturizer.

Step 5: lip prep If you have ever applied lipstick on dry, chapped lips, you have probably noticed your lipstick flaking off. To combat this, use a lip scrub to ensure the best lipstick results and to get rid of any dry skin. An added benefit to using a lip scrub is that it prevents any discolouration on your lips, so you look your best makeup- free too. Be sure to use a lip balm immediately after to keep your lips soft and supple

Step 6: Prime, It is rare that your skin will always look flawless. Naturally, we all occasionally get acne, enlarged pores and imperfections. However, a primer can really help to provide a good base for your makeup. Primers fill in the pores on the skin, smooth out blemishes and provide a natural glow to the skin. Not only do they help to prevent your makeup sliding off your face, but there is now a primer for almost every skin condition. For example, if you have uneven pigmentation in your skin, you can opt for a colour correcting primer whereas if you suffer mainly from enlarged pores, try a blurring prime.

Now that you’ve let your primer sink into the skin, you’re ready to proceed with foundation. If you would like a rundown of how to get the best make up tips let me know! Go checkout a few detailed classes on our social media pages

@MKM make up. Stay glowy!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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