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Caring for natural hair with Tapiwa Gachala

Are you a natural hair fanatic? Do you like your hair sparkling, black, spick-and-span at all times? Then I guess you should up your game if you did not attend the Annual NH Bots Hair Meet this past weekend at Doreen’s garden, I mean, this occasion was specifically premeditated for you.

You surely need tutorials on how best to keep your natural hair look decent, not just to elevate your confidence, but to attract devotion too. People like eyeing lovely things; they get regaled keen-sighting something with fascination. Natural hair movement continues to grow as many women transition from straight hair to afro and naturalista and beauty content creator, Tapiwa Gachala is hair goals. The natural hair influencer sure knows how to wear her natural crown with pride. Like any other natural hair lover, she does wear protective hairstyles but mostly prefers to stay with her healthy, intact afro.

She is actually one of the trusted brands. Her opinion on products is valued and to help you with a better natural hair journey, and just this past Saturday, she hosted hair enthusiasts for knowledge sharing on how to nurture, uphold and take care of natural hair. Her event, NH Bots Hair Meet was totally diverse from some of the events in Gaborone, and please ask me how! It’s very rare to have event organisers organise a shuttle to convey attendees to the venue, I was so thrilled to realise that we had shuttle service to transport us to the hair meet. That was actually my first experience, and I commend her for such a decent gesture. All you had to do was submit your ticket then you inside…

Anyway, back to business now! Upon arrival at Doreen’s Garden, we were treated to light snacks before we can actually dwell much on how we can have thick, beautiful and healthy hair. Increasing the growth rate of your hair and improving the health of your afro does not have to be a struggle, so I learnt. One lady with a nice afro could see that I am starring, and she quickly rushed to my corner and whispered ‘’you can boost your hair growth and health by eating a balanced diet. Eat right’’. I simply laughed it out. Not that the information was not significant, but because I felt she was just being superfluous.

In an exclusive interview with Weekend Life, Gachala said ‘’this is basically an event that we organize annually whereby we gather members of NH Bots group and members of the public to come share knowledge on natural hair care. We have speakers addressing different topics as well as tutorials to help simply natural hair care, and we make this affair interesting with loads of giveaways as one way of maintaining concentration as speaking for a long time can somehow be tedious’’

This time around, Gachala stressed that they contained within stalls by local hair food manufacturers, who I learnt make these products from natural ingredients. Some of these products are invisible in the market probably because of intensive competition from well-known hair products, but I must say this platform played a major role in showcasing what our young entrepreneurs have to offer. Everything starts from humble beginnings, and I have an assurance that in no time these products will be making developments in the beauty industry in Botswana.

Still at the hair meet, I comprehended that there were tutorials on hair styling. You know styling your hair says a lot about you, and in urban areas such as Gaborone, it is now a plus one on your fashion logic. You cannot be looking extravagant and gorgeous and your hair flair goes the opposite direction. Fashion police will literally be on your neck, these people never want to miss a thing. ‘’these styling tutorials are meant to show our attendees how to achieve simple but stylish hairstyles on natural hair. Some of this styles will require hair pins to tighten them up, wools, hair band and some would want you to be able to play perfectly well with hair, so you won’t necessarily need such objects’’ she said

Gachala indicated that it is very vital to take care of your hair, as it is one feature that people notice more than others, even if you are a stranger. ‘’our hair is an extension of our bodies and for a lot of us that is what you notice first in a person. For a lot of us just like fashion when your hair is healthy and looks good, it is a definite confidence booster and contributes a lot to your overall appearance and so it is important to take care of it. Also hair care helps prevent health complications, as if not taken care of, can be a germ accumulation area which is likely to transit diseases’’

How do people take care of their natural hair? Gachala emphasized that to promote hair growth and care, one needs to feed the hair from the inside, adding that it is vital to increase protein intake with foods such as fish, beans, nuts and whole grains. She noted that one should trim their hair frequently. How do you trim your hair when you want it to grow? ‘’this might seem counterproductive since you are trying to grow your hair but trust me when I see this is the way to go. By getting regular trims, you prevent split ends which cause your hair to break. Eliminating the breakage gives the appearance that your hair is growing faster’’ she said

It is important to wash your hair often, she said. Just make sure you are shampooing less and conditioning more. According to Gachala, you should not wash your hair every day. She recommends reserving if for when your hair is greasy and dirty. This is because shampoo can dry out and strip the hair of its healthy natural oils. She further recommended the use of relaxers sparingly. She underlined ‘’relaxers do wonders for the African hair but they also have devastating effects since they are made of chemicals.

Some of them, especially the cheap ones, also contain a hazardous ingredient called sodium hydroxide or Iye. Substances with large amounts of Iye can cause chemical burns, permanent injury or scarring, and blindness. This substance may be harmful or fatal if swallowed’’
Gachala advised that blow drying should be curtailed, as it subsidizes hair breakage. Ladies, afro fundamentalists, I guess was free lessons for all of you who did not attend the hair meet. Next time make sure you get your ticket on time and get this information directly from the speakers. And who knows, maybe this time around the shuttle will be a fine, luxurious and modern car from classy car dealers…I’m just saying!

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YAMAS 2020 Go Virtual

14th September 2020
YAMAS 2020

After announcing the postponement in March, the 6th edition of Yarona FM Music Awards (YAMAS) have bounced back and will be held virtually via Now Channel on DSTV Channel 290 and on the Yarona FM Facebook page on September 26 at 20h00.

This is one of the first virtual music awards to be held in Botswana.The 2020 edition of the YAMAS was originally slated to be held at the University of Botswana (UB) Campus Indoor Sport Centre early this year, but plans for an indoor ceremony were thrown for a loop by the coronavirus pandemic.

“There will be no public attendance at this year’s event, it will be produced for broadcast on TV and digital platforms. The event will take place in an extended reality studio which will comprise of the hosts only. The show must go on and we still have to award artist for their splendid job” said Yarona FM Station Manager Kelly Ramputswa.

Furthermore, Ramputswa stated that nothing much has changed apart from the awards ceremony going virtual, the voting lines for nominees remain the same. The voting lines opened on Tuesday 8th September and will close on 23rd September at midnight.Yarona FM has partnered with the Ministry of Youth Empowerment, Sport and Culture Development (MYSC) and First National Bank Botswana (FNBB) who contributed money to ensure that winners go home with cash prizes ranging from P10 000 and P15 000.

“We recognize the hardship that has befallen the creative industry due to the COVID-19 pandemic. Botswana’s creative sector remains resilient and Yarona FM, as a crucial player remains committed to contributing meaningfully to develop the sector.

The partnership to bring the YAMAS at this time, with cash winnings for musicians and other creatives involved in the show is demonstration that we are all in this together,” said the Yarona FM Station Manager.The effort of gifting artists with money is a big boost since most of them did not manage to source income from live performances due to COVID- 19 protocols that led to suspension of many events.

The 6th edition of the YAMAS will be hosted by Yarona FM presenters Loungo Andre Pitse and Kedi Molosiwa. There will be performances from artists such as ATI, Mophato Dance Theater, Girly and FME DJs.

 

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Promoters demand re-opening of their sector

14th September 2020
Franco

The entertainment industry remains the hardest hit by the Covid-19 pandemic and some creatives cannot take the strain anymore.

Other sectors seem to be gradually re-opening and learning to live with the pandemic, the creative industry on the other hand is still closed with no hope for it opening any time soon. Government has seemingly turned a blind eye to the drowning industry.

Meanwhile other countries are coming up with strategic plans on how best their entertainment industries can be re-opened and how people can live with the pandemic without putting each other at risk. Promoters Association gathered to air out their concerns and lament on how much the government has side-lined them.

Government is still delaying to pay subsidies to the creatives. The Ministry of Youth currently claims to have paid a total sum of P19 404 180 to 340 youth businesses and 9090 creatives. The ministry further stated that they have 15 640 who were assessed and vetted and 12 391 were approved.

A further P 4 054 820 is yet to be paid during the ongoing payment process. However, the Botswana Entertainment Promoters Association (BEPA), are demanding that the ministry provides them proof of payment for those who were credited, instead of releasing statistics.

“We have contributed to the best of our ability even though other promoters were not paid. As for now that P7500 is not as important because people have life problems and commitments and they got tired of waiting for the money. We tried were we could as BEPA with MYSC,” said Gilbert Seagile, President of BEPA.

Some promoters however found themselves drowning during the pandemic with no life raft as life issues pile up without any source of income. “We had cases of depression. They came to our offices. We had cases were other promoters almost committed suicide due to lack of income,’’ said Seagile.

Promoters Association wishes to work on their own without relying on the government. They had however crafted a project dubbed ‘Project Tselapedi’, wherein they seek P20 million to fund annual events. The funds are to be disbursed pending on how much each project is worth. This in an effort to help the ministry and to relief problems.

“We believe the project can be financed because even today we do not know when the sector will be opened. We have solutions but we are never called when decisions are made. We are three months away from December without hosting any event. They keep postponing meetings every week. Our industry is dying and it is dying in their hands,” said Promoter Exotic.
“All sectors were met, the transport sector has been fully opened yet they are not adhering to Covid-19 protocols.

Which means we can also host events whilst adhering to covid-19 protocols. The creative industry contribute highly to the GDP. We are not happy and we are going to do everything. We are being colonized by the liquor Act. These two are different. This issue puts us at a disadvantage. The liquor Act has nothing to do with us,” said Seagile.

Former President of BEPA, Zenzel Hirschfield, has sternly lashed out at the government for side-lining promoters and denying them the one thing that buttered their bread.“We are tired of going to the offices without anything coming forth. We also have the expertise to sit down and advice. The reason why they are doing what they are doing is because they are feeling the heat like us. We are not going to remain silent.

We will not listen and sit down. We will continue to speak. And we need to speak to the relevant people which is our President. We are dying of hunger. We don’t trade with alcohol we trade with the arts,” she lamented.

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Is Polygamy Ideal?

14th September 2020
Polygamy

POLYGAMIST: South African businessman Musa Mseleku and his four wives.

No one can be blamed for thinking that women have been failed in this country. The 2020 World Population Reviews has placed Botswana as the second out of 10 countries after neighbouring South Africa with the highest rape cases in the world.

According to World Population Review, Botswana has 92.9 percent incidents per 100,000 people. The statistics are spine chilling and would prompt any country to act fast and put measures in place to reduce the numbers and keep save the most vulnerable; women and children.

In view of this ignominy, policy-makers would respond by putting in necessary legislations to address the crisis. However, it turns out such a belief is only presumptions. Even female MPs have not proved indifferent to the pleas of those who are at the receiving end, a disappointing gesture on their part.

Recently, Member of Parliament for Mahalapye East, Yandani Boko tabled a motion in parliament on urgent basis in which he requested President Mokgweetsi Masisi to set-up a Commission of Inquiry on GBV and other sexual offenses.The motion was infamously opposed by Anna Mokgethi, the minister responsible for gender affairs, disputing its urgency.

Incidentally, not long ago, Mokgethi went on record and sought help from President Masisi, seeking protection from her husband, citing that she fears for her life.Despite refusing to support the motion when it was tabled later, Mokgethi has been taking part in campaigns against GBV on social media.

If that was not enough, this week another female MP took it to another level. Beauty Manake, a Specially Elected MP is of the firm belief that polygamy can be a solution to GBV. It begs the question; how does having many wives solve GBV? If anything it may very well lead to a spike in the number of cases.

These remarks have left many women very much disenchanted on the idea, arguing that they are misrepresented and disappointed that the remarks were made by another woman.WeekendLife has taken it to the relevant people to find whether polygamy is really what we need to curb Gender Based Violence.

“Such a law disadvantages women as they are seldom involved in the decision to invite another women into their marriage. It is of course, highly discriminatory and should not be entertained. It will not work especially given the many social ills that lead to Gender Based Violence. Many domestic disputes are centered around adultery.

Legalising polygamy would lead to a conflict in homes and of laws in which an aggrieved spouse can sue for adultery, but the law in question would allow men to court other women during marriage,” Precious Gondwe, President of Pan African Game Changers and the founding Partner of Precious & Partner Law Firm.

“How will the rights of the first wife be protected? People are already killing each other as they cannot handle sharing their spouse. Couples fight about the presence of a third party in their marriage. Therefore officialising something that is not right, won’t make it morally right. It will only continue to repress women further and breakdown the family.

Once the family is broken then the very essence of society will be broken.””Legalising such a social ill would not make it morally correct. What does that mean to us as Batswana with the high rate of HIV and other social ills? This does not cure any of the social ills related to GBV. It is retrogressive in nature would be a proponent of GBV.

Surely in 2020 that is unacceptable. You cannot solve this by bringing in another predicament. As a woman and a Batswana, I am deeply concerned as to why that issue should be raised. We are adding more injury to the wound. I vehemently disagree with what the minister raised. We can’t legalize a problem!”

Polygamy in an era faced with Covid-19 and the repercussions of it is tantamount to economic suicide. Women no longer submit to men as easily, they understand the importance of independence and building legacies and protecting their wellbeing and that of their children. They understand that their lives are not centred around a man.

Social Activist Gaontebale Omphemetse Mmolai strongly believes polygamy will only regress women.“I am against polygamy because looking at the things we normally complain about, be it finances, children’s welfare, family relations and all, I believe that if we legalise polygamy in Botswana it will be a way of advocating for an increase in women’s problems.

Men will be given more power to oppress and abuse women in all different ways,” she said.“So imagine if you are stuck in that kind of a relationship or a marriage. Then both of you are being abused and the situation is worsened. So legalizing polygamy is a way of making an excuse for men. It will never be an alternative to solve GBV issues in our country. I am against the idea.”

The church however believes that in as much as there was polygamy in the Bible, God was clear that a man shall leave his family to be joined to his wife and not wives. They are of the belief that, there is no room for polygamy in the body of Christ and hence people should be inspired by the truth of God regarding marriage.

“The fact that there was polygamy in the bible does not mean that God approved of the practice. When we come under the new dispensation, we are under the New Testament. In 1Timothy 3 v 2 & 12, Titus 1 v 16, which explains that good leadership comes with a man having only one wife. In this portion of scripture, it was referred to church leaders and pastors,” Boago Ramogapi, Royal Assembly Ministries Pastor highlighted to WeekendLife.

“The reason why it was so, it was because they were the example of the Godly life. So that what we see in them becomes an example of what we are supposed to have in our personal lives. A man with one wife meant the congregation of the society must also follow an example of being joined to one wife. We are of the belief that one man one wife.”

As GBV persists, he has admitted that it has even entered church doors and that they are affected as much. Many people within church indoors are victims of rape and violence. “When it comes to GBV and polygamy being used to curb GBV I don’t think it will work. We just need behavioural change. The stance is that we need to permeate all the spheres so that men can rise to the occasion. And much more importantly I wish to see more men standing against it,” he said.

“We need to rise up to the occasion because GBV have also permeated church walls, because church members are sometimes abused sexually in the church. We need to reach out to men, we have done well with the girl child. It is now time to empower the boy child.”

 

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