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Make your man happy in bed, even if you shy

Contrary to common belief, making a man happy especially in bed isn’t as complicated as it is made to seem. Whether you have a boyfriend or a husband, it is It is the only thing that will hold you together for as long as possible.

There are different ways in which you can carry yourself when it comes to sex that will always drive your man crazy, but before that, please, satisfy your man and make him happy in bed sexually, even if you shy! According to a lifestyle blog Panda Gossips, nothing makes your boyfriend happier than being told that you love him back. Make it a habit and you will make a happy lover. And as someone smart once said, a happy husband, a happy, satisfied wife. I know it’s supposed to be the other way round but you get the point, right?

Panda Gossips indicated that taking your man hostage in bed will make him happy. Tie him up on the bed and tease him a little bit before making love to him. Doing so, it says, will not only drive him crazy but will leave him wanting more of you, which will always be to your advantage because you will sure as hell enjoy the lovemaking session. Make sure that you are always surprising him by not making it a norm. Turn your man on in the shower, the blog advised. Nothing turns a man more than seeing the woman he loves naked with foam dripping down her goddess figure.

That being said, always invite your boyfriend to take showers with you and that will give him more than one reason to be happy. Just make sure that the temperatures are lowered because how you women survive bathing in boiling water still remains a mystery to men. While women are serial fantasists, men happen to be visual creatures. That means that they get aroused by what they see. That said if you want to make your man happy, get to suck his fingers slowly and seductively while staring him in the eyes. Doing this will not only make him happy but will also be a stepping stone for a very hot sexual encounter.

Further, the blog designated that it’s critical you dirty talk your man to get him hard. I am sure you have heard the street dictum ‘’I want a lady in the streets but a freak in bed’’, right? Well, it so happens that Ludacris was speaking on behalf of all men in the world. Dirty talking is one of the salient tips that can be effectively used to turn your boyfriend sexually and make him a beast in bed. The good thing is that you can learn how to do it. Just don’t proceed to insult your man and always know where to draw the line, which is nothing that good practice cannot fix.

Though your boyfriend will not come clean about it, all men love it when women moan during sex, the blog said. That shows that he is doing such a fine job pleasuring you and that will make him even go harder while on top of you. Just make sure that you aren’t exaggerating it unless you want to turn your boyfriend off. Make your relationship exciting by making your man wait. If you want to make your man crave for you, don’t give him the obvious because he will grow tired of you. Thankfully, there are many ways in which you can use to make him crave you over and over again. For instance, when you are making love to your man, make sure that you are going to his private parts and that should happen only after he had begged for it.

Panda Gossips also shared that choosing the right background music for sex does the magic. Contrary to popular belief, men also like it when women make an effort to set the mood. Try playing some soothing music in the background while you crawl on your fours towards your man and see your boyfriend falling in love with you a second time. If you aren’t sure about what music your boyfriend likes, just ask. Don’t go wasting money on hiring a private investigator to investigate your man. Strip-tease your man and make him happy. Did your man stop going to the strip club because he met and fell in love with you? Good. But that does not mean that he has to miss out all the fun he used to have when he was single.

Make your man happy by strip teasing him from time to time. Don’t go welding a silicon stripper pole in the midst of your living room unless you want the visitors to never visit again. Just a little strip tease here and there will without a doubt make your man happy. Get rid of everything distracting your man. The blog shared that if you want to make your man happy and sexually turned on before hopping to bed, well one of the many tips you can use is by getting rid of all the distractions. You need to make yourself his only distraction. So how do you go about it? It’s simple. When it’s time to make love, switch off the TV, slide into something amazingly hot and switch of the phone because phones have a special gift of running moments when they ring.

Drink coffee with your man before sex. It was clearly explained that apart from caffeine boosting your man’s concentration while making love to you, coffee will also make you hornier. If you haven’t tried it, make sure that you try it out then send me a thankful note. And twenty thousand pula. Don’t ask me what it is for. Further, it was said that ensure that the lights are on when you make love to him. Men are visual creatures and would love to see that hot, naked body going that extra mile to make him feel amazing. If you keep on doing this, you can always be assured that it will make him fall in love with you even more. And Oh, if you want to make him hooked to you and become a very satisfied man, then you need to know his sensitive spots.

But even though you know them, always make sure that you are going there last. It will always make him crave you more if you save the best for last. You should always take this as well as other tips with a pinch of salt and make your sex life even better.

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The art of mastering instrumentals

12th April 2021
Kagiso "Fella" Kenosi

You will know a tree by its fruits, the same way you will know a music producer by their works.

Top music producers in the country have set themselves apart through the quality music they produce and reap the results of international recognition from as far as the United States of America.

These producers are behind every star performer, listening and analyzing each and every note. When artists perform a vocal swell, rising to an octave that sounds like it’s going to shatter voice box, it’s easy to forget that someone was on the other side of the glass asking questions like, “Can you hit that note every night, or will it hurt too badly? Maybe we should lower the octave to save your voice?”

Producers make hundreds of decisions in each song, not to mention the push and pull relationships they have with talented performers.These relationships can make or break careers. Some of your favorite bands and artists wouldn’t be so memorable without a great producer helping to guide their distinct voices.

Kagiso Kenosi, or better known as Fella in the entertainment industry, is only 31-years old but he has already left his imprint in the music industry. The young chap, originally from Palapye, is not in the industry to add numbers, but to do his magic working behind the scenes producing hit song after hit song.

When most producers went to school to produce the hits that we hear today, Fella’s foundation and passion for producing came from being active in church.

“I grew up in a catholic orientated family where music is the essence of our religion. The love for music in its entirety emerged from enjoying singing at church and blossomed over the years as I grew up, being exposed to the internet and software’s such as fruity loops.”

Fella says he then learnt how to make beats and proceeded with vocal processing so besides the love for music, he had an amazing group of people who helped him reach his life dream; being the best in music production. The sky was the limit for Fella.

Unfortunately for so many music producers locally, this kind of hustle is basically about being famous. Some of them bite off more than they can chew just for a quick buck that doesn’t even go a long away for them. At the end of it all, these fly by night prima-donnas end up cutting corners and producing subpar records which eventually leads to a premature death for their careers.

Fella’s advice is that fellow colleagues should be patient and continue learning the craft, even if it means taking online tutorials. “Even though I’m still learning too, for I believe music is a fast infinite universe where no one can never say they know it all, I think believing in what one does, the level of creativity and being able to stand alone can do magic.

We living in an era where people go through a lot, so it is imperative for a music producer to be able to relate to those kind of situations. This takes only the right instrumentals, which will compliment emotions of an artist.”

The most asked question outside the music industry is; who chooses the instruments for a song, is it the artist or the producer? Fella gave his take;

“I make instrumentals and keep them until an artist comes to work on a song. That’s when I advise on whether I think the concept they chose goes hand in hand with the instrumentals. We will then look for a more appropriate song.

In some cases, artists can come and we record vocals without an instrumental and then get to make a beat on top of the recorded vocal which in that case guides me to make a relevant instrumental,” he said in an exclusive interview with WeekendLife on Wednesday.

Digging more into finding the difference between a producer and an engineer, Fella clarified that there is not much difference. There is actually a thin line between the two even though an engineer does more than a producer when dishing out a song.

“We use the word production to credit people who only make beats. Engineers are people who record vocals, clean them, do the mixing and master the song preparing the record for radio. I must say an engineer, does the critical components of a song.”

As young as he is, Fella has been through thick and thin with young artists. It has been a roller-coaster of emotions, because, frankly some of these fledging artists are way too complicated to work with. Fella admits that he too has flaws but c’est la vie, you can’t make an omelette without breaking some eggs.

“It’s always a blessing and quite exciting because these different people of different energies and mind-sets and creativity will humble you. It’s a chastening experience and also accords me with experience to manoeuvre and adjust to people with different characters.

So truly, it has helped me grow as a person, and a producer.”

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BOMU spruce up dirty laundry

30th March 2021
BOMU awards

Botswana Musicians Union (BOMU) is known for its bad reputation that has been getting worse over the years. There has been a lot of chinwag, squabbles and the organization literally lost touch. It has gotten so bad that stakeholders pulled out, and members were left with no choice but to face the music alone.

Just when you’d think the waters are calm, the new Executive Committee awarded a fledgling company, Total Music Group, to handle the 2021 music awards. This move was seen as a biased decision that got BOMU members bent out of shape.

However, BOMU Secretary General, Rasina Rasina told Weekendlife that the Executive Committee that it has many irons in the fire. He indeed admitted without reluctance that, BOMU has been clouded by hubbub.

“We pledged when the new administration took over that it would begin with cleaning our own house. We have built structures as we had promised and we are glad that they are fully functional. One of those is the disciplinary committee.”

“BOMU has for a long time appeared to be lacking discipline and proper laid down procedures. This has led to the organization losing out big in its endeavour to serve its members and the entire music fraternity. The National Executive Committee, chapter committees and sub-committees have committed to ensuring that non proper governance and accountability shall take centre stage and this is all that is happening,” Rasina told Weekendlife on Tuesday.

Rebuilding and rebranding a disintegrated intuition such as BOMU is not just a walk in the park, it needs concerted efforts and team work to actually reach that goal. A stitch in time saves nine, but as for BOMU, the entire union failed to address its dares a long time ago, but the union says everything is on track in recuperating public trust and fixing the mess created then.

BOMU Research and Policy Committee is hard finalizing a new code of conduct which will contribute significantly to how members and leadership conduct themselves and relate with each other for the furtherance of BOMU’s mandate, Weekendlife has been reliably informed.

“We are doing everything according to our constitution, logic and reason. We advise our members that they should point out where the constitution has been breached and that they are at liberty to follow due process and report any misconduct to the disciplinary committee,” said Rasina.

This is following the suspension of some executive committee members and BOMU subscribed members for questioning the integrity in awarding the music awards tender. Some members, told Weekendlife that they will seek legal advice on the matter.

“We do have members who have already appeared before the disciplinary committee on various charges and decisions are yet to be taken. We also have members who are yet to appear before the committee for various complaints levelled against them. Current suspensions are related to various complaints and offences.”

With regard to appointing Total Music Group, BOMU National Executive Committee says it used Article 9.3.19 of its constitution. The article says; “The National Executive Committee of BOMU shall have the authority to enter into legally binding contracts on behalf of the Union.’’

Rasina says the leadership needed a company to manage, host and sell the BOMU awards for five years consecutively so as to attain stability and refurbish the brand image of both the music awards and the organization. “Without any money at our disposal, we debated on the best model and agreed that we should engage a company that also has the capacity to mobilize resources. We used our discretion and decided on a direct appointment model which is perfectly legal and constitutional.”

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SENEO PERRY: Beauty with a purpose

24th March 2021
Seneo Perry

To a stranger, Seneo Perry would describe herself as a young darling zealous about wildlife conservation, international travel and tourism enthusiast.

She is also a staunch believer in empowering young children through educational programs that could expose them to live improved livelihoods.

Perry is a former beauty queen (Miss Earth Botswana 2020). For her, a beauty queen should get down and put in some work, get dirt and make an impact. Of course a picture paints a thousand words, and judging from her successful projects, she lives the talk.

During her reign, Perry adopted the SOS Children’s Village. This is a home for 92 orphaned and less privileged children. She introduced few projects to aid the running of the children village, at the same time sourcing sponsors. She named one of her projects ‘Restoring the Prime Colors of the Earth.’

Restoring The Prime Colors of the Earth was founded on the basis of teaching children about the importance of conservation and environmental protection through tree planting and vegetable gardens.

The project, she told Weekendlife this week, gained local and international recognition, particularly from tourism magazines.

COVID-19 came over and messed up her strategies for the year. Perry however did not cry over spilt milk instead she was smart enough to divert into other streams of raising funds to execute her obligations.

Perry did not put all of her eggs in one basket by doing something that could make her get infected, but rather sold t-shirts that would double as a promotion strategy dubbed #PeopleWildlifeEnvironment. To this date, she raised over P7000.

“I love being out in the wild and promoting sustainable tourism. I would then pick the best 10 children that worked very hard at the project I have with them and introduce them to the wild with the money I raised,” she said in an exclusive interview.

“The idea is to stick to making the trip for the children educational especially on the aspect of conservation because realistically speaking tourism is the backbone of conservation.

I want them to have first-hand experience with the African elephant and visit the Elephant Havens Wildlife Foundation in Maun. Unfortunately due to floods in Moremi Game Reserve, the plan of a game drive has been aborted.”

Initially, Perry says she wanted the children to have been those from the SOS Children’s Village. She had to put them on ice due to insufficient funds to transport them to Maun. This however did not dishearten Perry, instead she located Bana Ba Letsatsi (in Maun) to embark on this journey.

She told Weekendlife that the trip will be undertaken today (Saturday 20th March 2021).“Tourism has always been the backbone of conservation and it needs to be protected. Therefore, it is imperative to introduce children to wild spaces so they get to appreciate the ecosystem in the wild.

These young children will be leaders and decision makers in the near future. Decisions made will either cause a catastrophe to the wild or help it recover to a point wherein both humans and animals co-exist.

Seneo Perry is an environmentalist equipped with a Bachelor’s Degree in Entrepreneurial Business Leadership from Sheffield Hallam University and Miss Earth Botswana 2019 finalist. She was crowned Queen in 2020.

She is also a member of Kalahari Conservation Society, a conservation society which is instrumental in environmental initiatives and activities that concern the environment.

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